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		<title>Why washing dishes in saltwater is WORTH IT</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 18 May 2013 12:30:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lanea Riley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA["What did we sign up for?!" I thought after our first day at anchor in the Sea of Cortez. We had spent the prior night and wee morning hours fighting through a 30 knot coromuel to get to the anchorage. Both us and the boat were covered with  [...]]]></description>
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<p><strong class="color-green-grass"><em>&#8220;What did we sign up for?!&#8221;</em></strong> I thought after our first day at anchor in the Sea of Cortez. We had spent the prior night and wee morning hours fighting through a 30 knot <em>coromuel</em> to get to the anchorage. Both us and the boat were covered with salt.</p>
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<p>We took a pitiful shower in the cockpit with the already partially broken Solar Shower but without a watermaker we didn’t have enough water to clean the boat. Instead we walked around the deck spraying the hardware with a water bottle in hopes of preventing corrosion.</p>
<p>We had barely slept the night before and were expecting another sleepless night due to a repeat performance of coromuel winds.</p>
<p>After dinner I leaned over the  side of the boat to scoop salt water in to a 5 gallon bucket. The very bucket that I planned to use for the summer to wash the dishes in salt water before a fresh water rinse.</p>
<p>I don’t like doing dishes in the first place, and now I am doing dishes in a salty bucket? Looking out on the uninhabited island of Isla Espiritu Santo, my husband and I asked each other, is this seriously going to be our life for the whole summer? Is this really what we  signed up for?!<span id="more-7783"></span></p>
<p><strong class="color-green-grass"><em>I don’t know if I can do this all summer</em></strong>, I confided that evening.</p>
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The next day we took a hike, walked the beach, and had the most magical sunset at anchor. It was as if all the wildlife in the area choreographed a magnificent performance while we sat on the deck eating dinner. I kept waiting for Ariel to jump out of the water with flying fish and manta rays as back up dancers and belt out “Under the Sea.”</p>
<p class="color-green-grass"><strong>From that moment on, we were undeniably hooked.</strong></p>
<p>We would sit on the foredeck with a good  book and maybe a glass of wine and wait for the wildlife dance that took place  every night before sunset to begin.</p>
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<p>Away from the comforts of the marina which offers free-flowing water,  electricity, and the ability to sleep through the night, we settled in for a summer of exploration, living off the sea, and self sustainability. After our  first 18 days in the Sea of Cortez we picked up a mooring ball at Puerto Escondido for a couple of nights to refill our water tanks, wash the boat,  change the oil, and refuel before we headed out for the islands again.</p>
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<p>That was  the longest we had gone without visiting a restaurant since we each started  college. In fact, before we went cruising I cooked an average of one meal a  year for my husband. Obviously things had changed since our land life.</p>
<p>Six months in the Sea of Cortez led to lasting friendships, fabulous  meals on board, learning how to wash clothes by hand, and becoming intimately  aware of how to use our anchor, the tides, the moon cycle, and weather. Not to  mention a slight addiction with the game Baja Rummy. Most importantly we  learned about each other and ourselves.</p>
<blockquote><p><em>“If you would enjoy a weekend alone with your partner locked in your apartment without power and water, then you will love voyaging together.”<br />
—  THE VOYAGER’S HANDBOOK  by Beth A.Leonard</em></p></blockquote>
<p>A ‘land  friend’ asked what it was like to spend so many uninterrupted days together. “<em>Like we were on an extended couples retreat.” </em>I answered. We had nothing but  time to laugh, play, explore, and talk.</p>
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<p class="color-green-grass"><strong>By comparison, life is pretty easy in a marina. But we love the  adventure that comes with being at anchor in the Sea.</strong></p>
<p class="note">This article was published on July 3, 2012 in Lanea Riley&#8217;s blog <a href="http://svmoondance.wordpress.com/" target="_blank">The Voyage of Moondance</a>.</p>
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<h5>About Lanea Riley</h5>
<p id="yui_3_7_2_1_1368789786632_10119">Lanea  Riley and her husband Conor bought an Islander 36, in April 2011 and within 15 days they decided to prepare Sausalito-based <span class="boat_name">MOONDANCE</span> for a southbound trip to Mexico. Six short months later, they left under the Golden Gate Bridge.</p>
<p id="yui_3_7_2_1_1368789786632_10027">They have been enjoying Mexico ever since and spent 6 glorious months in the Sea of Cortez in the summer of 2012.</p>
<p id="yui_3_7_2_1_1368789786632_10094">Lanea maintains a sailing blog at <a id="yui_3_7_2_1_1368789786632_10093" href="http://svmoondance.wordpress.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.svmoondance.wordpress.com</a></p>
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<h5>More on this website:</h5>
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<li><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/2012/02/lanea-riley-lipstick-sailor/">Lipstick sailor</a>, by Lanea Riley</li>
<li>Daria Blackwell: <a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/2011/04/what-i-like-best-about-cruising-daria-blackwell/">What I like best about cruising? Passages and anchorages: a world of your own</a></li>
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		<title>Improve your skills with 4 long-distance sailing women &#8211; Marblehead, MA &#8211; Saturday, June 1</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 09 May 2013 23:24:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Betsy Morris</dc:creator>
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The Women&#8217;s Sailing Conference, held each June in Marblehead, is great fun. I&#8217;ve been involved one way or another many times. It amazes me how many women come back year after year. It also astounds me how quickly and enthusiastically women learn from each other.</p>
<p>This year the conference is about women extending their range. That  [...]]]></description>
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The <strong class="color-green">Women&#8217;s Sailing Conference</strong>, held each June in Marblehead, is great fun. I&#8217;ve been involved one way or another many times. It amazes me how many women come back year after year. It also astounds me how quickly and enthusiastically women learn from each other.</p>
<p><img class="pic-right" style="margin: 0px; display: block; border-width: 0px;" title="" src="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/women-sailing-logo.jpg" alt="" width="225" />This year the conference is about women extending their range. That might mean different things to different participants:</p>
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<li>First overnight cruise</li>
<li>Doing all the navigating for a short trip</li>
<li>Going to Maine for two weeks</li>
<li>Crossing the Gulf Stream</li>
<li>Moving aboard</li>
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<p>The one-day conference &#8211; <strong class="color-green">Saturday, June 1, 2013</strong> &#8211; will be moderated by <a href="http://www.bethandevans.com/" target="_blank"><em>Beth Leonard</em></a>, long-time and long-distance sailor and Technical Editor for <a href="http://www.boatus.com/" target="_blank">BoatUS</a> publications.</p>
<p>Panelists are</p>
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<li><em>Capt. Sharon Renk-Greenlaw</em>, owner of <a href="http://www.womenundersail.com/" target="_blank">Women Under Sail </a>in Maine;</li>
<li><em>Capt. Nancy Erley</em> of Seattle, founder of <a href="http://tethysoffshore.com/" target="_blank">Tethys Offshore</a> who has twice circumnavigated with all-women crews;</li>
<li>and me, <em>Betsy Morris</em> of Marblehead, a long-time cruiser.</li>
</ul>
<p>There&#8217;s more information available at <a href="http://www.womensailing.org" target="_blank"><strong>www.womensailing.org</strong></a>, including the registration form. There&#8217;s a nice discount for those registering before May 15th.</p>
<p>I can&#8217;t wait to see who&#8217;ll attend this year.</p>
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		<title>How I said farewell to the Southern Cross and got new eyes.</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 05 May 2013 18:15:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Clare Collins</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[At 16o 36.050 S and 97o 31.080 W we turned around.  It was not equipment failure or dangerous weather; it was fatigue.
We were half way to Easter Island from the Galapagos and from there we were headed to the fjords of Chile.
But it was not to be. We knew we would only get more tired and the safety of our family in a vast empty sea would be at risk. I had resisted abandoning the plan.  I wanted the children to see that dreams and plans can be  [...]]]></description>
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<p class="color-brown-light"><strong>At 16<sup>o </sup>36.050 S and 97<sup>o </sup>31.080 W we turned around.  It was not equipment failure or dangerous weather; it was fatigue.</strong></p>
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Next stop Easter Island.</td>
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<p>We were half way to Easter Island from the Galapagos and from there we were headed to the fjords of Chile.</p>
<p>But it was not to be. We knew we would only get more tired and the safety of our family in a vast empty sea would be at risk. I had resisted abandoning the plan.  I wanted the children to see that dreams and plans can be fulfilled.</p>
<p class="color-brown-light"><strong>And suddenly, with a turn of the wheel, we had no plan.</strong></p>
<p><span id="more-7737"></span>We had not even planned out alternative ports of call on the South American coast.  Smashing up and down 15 foot waves in a state of sleep deprivation did not allow for thoughtful planning, other than knowing that we might not want to be south of the hurricane belt at the change of seasons.</p>
<p>On our southern path, I had not been prepared for the rush of emotion that filled me on first sighting again the star formation that had hung in my childhood skies.  Sailing under the Southern Cross as we pursued our beautiful adventure with our children overwhelmed me with happiness.  Turning my back on it again and on all I had envisaged broke my heart.</p>
<p>The cruising books and magazines seem to be filled only with the success stories that we want to emulate or else catastrophic survival stories that we hope to avoid, but they gloss over, or we choose to ignore, the single sentence that says they were hauled out for a year, or left their boat for years while they returned home to earn more money.  And this distorts the reality for us. All the success stories we hear mask the lonely private losses and frustrations that so many more of us experience.</p>
<p>We opted to return to our last port of call in the Galapagos and from there we headed straight for Mexico and safety from hurricanes.</p>
<p class="color-brown"><strong>My tears were soon tempered by the discovery that we were not alone in our disappointment.</strong></p>
<p>We met a girl in the Galapagos, left behind by the crew who had had to return to Panama when their 21 day permit expired and they required too many repairs to achieve the Pacific crossing that season.  She was hospitalized with kidney stones and waved good-bye to her boyfriend, who got a crewing position on a west-bound boat.</p>
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<p>On arriving back in La Cruz, in Mexico, we met crews who had made two attempts at that season’s Puddle Jump but had turned back both times with engine troubles while the fleet sailed on without them.</p>
<p>Friends who were on their way round the “Big U” were forced to return to Mexico for repairs when another boat in their anchorage dragged and pounded theirs in a storm.</p>
<p>Our own initial departure had been delayed by a year, first by rigging repairs and then by my husband’s potentially catastrophic back injury on the eve of departure.</p>
<p class="color-brown-light"><strong>Through this experience and hearing of others, I learned that it is so important to make something positive out of the negative.</strong></p>
<p>The happiest man we ever met was one whose plans to sail with his family had first been thwarted by divorce and then by life-threatening illness when his daughters were grown and he was on the point of sailing off.</p>
<p>We rushed on deck to the sound of crunching metal as a power boat swiped across this man’s bow, but his only response was a cheery request to talk about it when they got back.  To which my eldest spluttered that he was jumping ship to crew for him.</p>
<p>The secret to his happiness, he told me, was that he was finally fulfilling his dreams after so many set-backs and he was not about to make his life miserable by getting angry about anything.  He was happy because he was finally living his dream, but we have to see the gains that can be made out of the frustrating times when our dreams seem anything but fulfilled.</p>
<p>We feel we have failed, and yet true failure is never having tried; never having the guts to face the possibility of failure. So when the tide comes in and washes away those plans we wrote in the sand, what do we do?</p>
<p class="color-brown-light"><strong>We live life to the full in the very place we find ourselves.  We gained so much from our change of plans.</strong></p>
<p>Not least was the kind support and comfort of the friends who had successfully made the whole journey to Chile and emailed to see where we were.</p>
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<p>It was also reinforcement of our decision to turn around, as they told us of 60 knot winds, high seas and 9<sup>o </sup>C temperatures.  As it happened, on our northward return we blew a jib line and broke the steering chain.  Both were so much easier to repair in the calmer seas we had towards the ITCZ than they would have been heading south.</p>
<p>On our southward journey we had been so driven by the need to make progress that we hadn’t taken time to explore along the way.  Our northward trip was filled with so many more adventures and we even took time to travel inland.</p>
<p>Returning to our starting point of Ensenada, however, felt like the definition of failure.  But even there, the 6 months we spent were filled with the richest opportunities our kids had had.</p>
<ul>
<li>Our eldest enrolled at the local university for an advanced Spanish course and joined the faculty as a volunteer English Lab tutor before heading to university in Australia.</li>
<li>Our second son, who plans to pursue musical performance, joined the local youth orchestra as first flute, and initiated a wind ensemble.</li>
<li>Our daughter continued her earlier studies of Mexican Folklorico dancing and performed with her group on numerous occasions.</li>
<li>Our youngest son was finally able to learn to ride a bicycle, which he used to ride to piano lessons with a fabulous teacher, whose studio was near the marina.</li>
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<p><strong class="color-brown-light">What had seemed a shameful failure turned out to be the opportunity of a life time.</strong> Similarly, the friends who had to turn back for repairs, are now settled in Mexico with both children becoming fluent in Spanish.</p>
<p>We need to make plans.  In our case, we should have made many more plans that included more places to make landfall, or even to head due west. Having alternative plans is the best way to make sure you come out well from set-backs.</p>
<p>However, making physical progress along a chart is not the only way to have an adventure.  Even being delayed in some port of your home country is an opportunity to explore and enrich your life.  Look at your port town like a cruiser.  Find the fun markets, the free family entertainment and festivals, the thrift and second hand book stores.  Join a group at the library or start one in your marina.  Devote time to learning the languages you will need or going to classes for skills to make you more confident at sea.</p>
<p>As Marcel Proust put it,</p>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><em>The real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes,<br />
but in having new eyes.</em></p>
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<p>Recently my husband bought me an international cell phone, and its default screen saver was the heads of Easter Island.  I had to ask him to change it for me; New eyes or not, I was not quite ready to look at that particular lost dream.</p>
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<h6 class="color-brown-light">About Clare Collins</h6>
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Clare and her family have lived aboard and cruised in their 72 foot steel Challenge racing boat since 2008.  They are currently stationary while the kitty gets replenished and children take part in musical and academic pursuits.</p>
<p>Clare believes that with the attitude of adventure you can be a cruiser anywhere you find yourself.</p>
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<h6>More from Clare Collins, on this website</h6>
<ul class="note">
<li><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/Fighting-Fear-Clare-Collins.htm">Fighting Fears: Taking the Plunge</a> (Feature article)<br />
The account of Clare family’s quest to fulfill their dream of sailing</li>
<li><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/2012/01/staying-pink-in-a-blue-world/">Staying pink in a blue world</a> (Blog)</li>
<li><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/2012/11/clare-collins-first-cruising-adventure-best-worst-moments/">First cruising adventure: Our best and worst moments</a> (Blog)</li>
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		<title>How do women educate themselves about sailing?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Apr 2013 14:55:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Karen Bergman</dc:creator>
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The captain put me in charge of getting us from point A to point B. I was responsible for upping anchor, route planning, navigating and dropping the hook at our destination.



<p>My cruising life started and nearly ended in 2007. It just wasn&#8217;t what I thought or hoped it would be.</p>
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<p>My cruising life started and nearly ended in 2007. It just wasn&#8217;t what I thought or hoped it would be.</p>
<p>It was clear: never darken the boarding ladder again, or find out for myself what I wanted from cruising. My own approach to living in this watery world for months at a time.</p>
<p>I wondered what other cruising women were thinking about and doing on their boats. So I started to ask them. One of the areas we talked about was educating ourselves.</p>
<p><strong>Common amongst the women I spoke with was a learning style based on doing.<span id="more-7692"></span></strong></p>
<p>Explanations, instructions, words, only go so far. Perhaps it’s my own conclusion but the women seemed similar to me in this regard.</p>
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<p>I sensed, too, that explanations and instructions could be an obstacle to learning – especially when offered by a spouse. Not to be negative about the spouse’s efforts and intent. It can simply be a mismatch of teaching and learning styles – a situation I’m familiar with.</p>
<p>It is absolutely necessary to immerse myself in whatever subject area of sailing that I wish to learn. I cannot standby and hope to learn. Some observation is important but I have realized that unless I force myself to read weather books so I can be part of weather discussions; take time to pour over charts; pay attention to local knowledge when it’s being shared; I cannot really be part of route planning.</p>
<p><strong>An impediment to learning shared by more woman than just me is a spouse who is more knowledgeable.</strong></p>
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<p>It’s sometimes easier to abdicate and let the more competent person do it. And sometimes the more competent person has a hard time letting go and giving the student space to learn. It can be a difficult balance to find. When something needs to be done now and done right, it’s not a time to chance a mistake.</p>
<p>However, most moments on the boat are not like that and there is room for learning from one’s mistakes.</p>
<p>The challenge is for the student to be persistent in their own learning. Watch, read, talk to others, and try. Don’t stop trying. Insist with yourself and others that you will keep on trying. Above all, resist berating yourself for not knowing or making a mistake. Lock your successes firmly in your mind and touch on them often.</p>
<p>There are a few key knowledge areas that came up in my discussions with women.</p>
<p><strong>Sailing</strong></p>
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<p>Two women I talked to really stand out for me.</p>
<p>The first one, a single hander, learned to sail on the 25 foot sailboat her and her husband bought when their kids were young. They would head out to their boat on weekends. Saturday morning was her time to take the boat out alone. She&#8217;d try this, that and everything in between as she figured out how to set the sails, manage the lines and navigate. Later, she&#8217;d talk to her husband about her morning solo experience and sort out any questions she had.</p>
<p>Years later the marriage ended. The husband didn&#8217;t want the sailboat but she did. She continued to take the kids out on sailing weekends. Her sailing and boat handling knowledge continued to grow &#8211; as it&#8217;s bound to when you spend time with the boat on the water.</p>
<p>Today, one of her grown sons owns a boatyard. And she single hands her 42 ft sloop throughout the Bahamas and Caribbean, taking crew on board for passages as needed.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m wowed. But I totally get it. I could see myself taking a small sail boat out alone on the lake we live near at our land based home. I could mess around and if I couldn&#8217;t get myself back to shore I could radio for help. (Always good to have a fall back position!) I could practice reading the wind, setting the sails, tacking and jibing, coming along side bouys, to my heart&#8217;s content. No one to critique or offer up a flow of words (well meaning advice) that I just can&#8217;t process when I&#8217;m in my &#8220;experiential learning&#8221; mode. I could bask in the glory of making and solving my own mistakes. It&#8217;s what I do best. So why not do it on a sailboat?</p>
<p>I have in fact met another female single hander moored at St. Augustine, Florida who subscribes to the trial and error learning method herself. And she knows other women single handers that do, too! I&#8217;m not alone! I want to sail away with these women! I ask her if she was afraid of running into stuff. She tells me it&#8217;s a foregone conclusion that you will hit things. And she has run into things. So have her single handing friends. No major catastrophes ensued. It&#8217;s ok. (If you think about, many male captains have at least one story of running into a dock, shallow spot, wall, boat, etc. and have lived to laugh about it.)</p>
<p>The second woman that stands out in my conversations about how women learn to sail their boats, took a sailing course. It was a very good course, she says, and co-ed. When it came to the hands on sailing, an interesting &#8211; but not totally surprising &#8211; thing happened. The men wanted to step up and do all the &#8220;heavy&#8221; work. She had to literally elbow them aside saying &#8220;I came here to learn&#8221;. It was the right thing &#8211; the only thing &#8211; for her to do, in my books. At the same time it takes courage and decisiveness. Hmmm, yes it does.</p>
<p>Many other women have talked to me about the value of the women only sailing courses they&#8217;ve taken. I intend to do that one day but, as yet, have not had the time and money. And I&#8217;m getting more interested in the idea of a small sailboat on our lake back &#8220;home&#8221;.</p>
<p><strong>Charts, Route Planning and Navigating</strong></p>
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<p>At first, sea sickness kept me from studying the charts. Charts are key, though! (And in this digital age, many would argue that so is the chart plotter.) Charts are to sailing as road maps are to driving and topographical maps are to wilderness travel.</p>
<p>So I started looking at the charts when we were at anchor or on a very calm passage. I discovered that my background in using topographical maps for hiking and canoe trips, compasses, and latitudes and longitudes gave me a good start with the charts.</p>
<p>Charts can’t be read in isolation from weather (primarily wind direction and speed), low and high tides, and sunrise and sunset. All these factors are woven into an intricate blend of information for sailors’ decisions. And provide the fodder for a favourite cruiser discussion &#8211; where and when to go next.</p>
<p>I found, too, that I use the charts slightly differently than my spouse. For example, I rely more on latitude and longitude readings, and topographical features. I wouldn&#8217;t have discovered this if I had tried to use charts exactly the way he does.</p>
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<p>A woman sailor told me that she preferred to rely on one source of information for navigating. Multiple sources just confused things for her.</p>
<p>She relied on a handheld Garmin and sight, along with paper charts. She had navigated from Florida south to the Jumentos in the Bahamas and did not appear lost, so her system worked. (I think of the costly chart plotters I&#8217;ve seen at the West Marine store. They look like flat screen TVs to me. I will allow that perhaps they are worth every penny to some, but at present they seem like overkill to me.)</p>
<p>I&#8217;m glad to hear about the good service her handheld Garmin has done. We have one on board for back up to the modestly sized chart plotter mounted at the helm station.</p>
<p><strong>Electrical Systems</strong></p>
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<p>One woman I talked to is reading a manual on marine electrical systems to educate herself on how things work! Impressed, my eyebrows raised, all I can say is ‘wow”!</p>
<p>For the first few years, my knowledge was limited to understanding that batteries are recharged when the engine or generator is running and that we need a couple hours a day of either (or a mix) to keep electricity flowing. And I understood &#8211; as I do now &#8211; that electricity conservation is a must. Perhaps that’s the first thing to understand about electricity.</p>
<p>Another woman I spoke to dealt with electricity knowledge by not needing it. She owns a boat with her grandfather. Together, they set the goal of not turning on the engine. She is the first woman I’ve met that is nearly exclusively wind powered. She has a solar panel to power the vhf radio for communication, and a single side band receiver and am/fm radio from which they try to get weather information. Simplicity. Of course, the trade-offs are less weather information opportunities, and no cold beer, butter, and hot showers. Some days I bet the trade-offs are worth it, and some days not.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve started reading books about electricity, batteries, inverters and chargers. Last week I went to a boaters&#8217; seminar on electrical systems. (Before the seminar started a man sitting beside us said to me I was probably there to learn how to use the blow dryer. He had the good grace to realize he probably shouldn&#8217;t have said that.)</p>
<p>The next day I took notes as my husband set up the generator to charge the batteries. My next challenge is to do the set up myself. (All boats are set up differently &#8211; ours is moderately complex.) I can now have a basic conversation with my spouse about our own system aboard. Last year, I crawled into the far reaches of engine room to check the water level in the batteries. Not rocket science but, hey, it&#8217;s a start. (At the same time I made a foray into plumbing maintenance. I removed, cleaned and replace the filter basket in the line that drains the shower. )</p>
<p><strong>At this point in my conversations with women, I know I&#8217;m in good company when I say I need to learn about this sailing life by doing, more so than watching or being told.</strong></p>
<p>It can be a struggle to not sit back passively and let others do the things that right now seem too challenging. For me, though, learning is the only way I&#8217;m going to really get into this cruising life.</p>
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<h5>About Karen Bergman</h5>
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<p>I was born and raised in southern Alberta, Canada. For over 22 years I lived in Canada’s Arctic where my children were born and raised. My first adventure on the ocean was in an open boat to fish and hunt seals. In early spring we travelled on the frozen ice by snowmobile and komatik (a sled with runners). (No, we didn’t live in igloos! And, yes, we had electricity and running water.)</p>
<p>When I was young, I had romantic dreams about sailing around the world. I didn’t really think about how that would work given I get motion sick on a swing. My first adventure on a sail boat in 2007 saw us traveling around the Florida panhandle in a 32 foot Pearson, Island Breezes. I remember the heat, nausea, lightning storms and a water spout bearing down on us when our motor was disabled. Our max speed was 1 knot. I was terrified.</p>
<p>And unimpressed by the whole thing. I thought there had to be more to this cruising life. Next year we cruised in the Bahamas. That was more like it and I found enough in it to stick with cruising. We’ve been back to the Bahamas several times and also cruised (as crew on another boat) in south and central America. Currently, our cruising platform is <span class="boat_name">m/v Popeye</span>, a 42 foot Tolleycraft.</p>
<p>I retired from a wonderful public service career in 2011. I live now in southern British Columbia, Canada with my partner Dwight on 5 acres of solid land with mountains, lakes and rivers nearby. Between us, we own 9 boats, including the canoe and kayaks. I have three children and two granddaughters.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve just started blogging again: <a href="http://karens-photos-andstuff.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Karen Blogs Again</a>.</p>
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<h6>More on this website</h6>
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<li class="note"><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/2009/09/debbie-leisure-learns-to-sail-her-boat-single-handed/">Debbie Leisure learns to sail her boat single-handed:</a> Learning to handle the boat alone after a husband&#8217;s death.</li>
<li><a class="note" href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/category/features/how-we-learn/">All posts in &#8220;How we learn&#8221;</a> <span class="note">: Women tell us how they have learned the skills they need to sail and cruise.<br />
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<li><span class="note"><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/resources.htm#LearningToSail">&#8220;Learning to sail&#8221;: Women &amp; Cruising resources</a><br />
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<li><span class="note"><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/2012/09/karen-bergman-what-do-women-like-most-about-sailing-their-boats/">What do women like most about sailing their boats?</a> by Karen Bergman<br />
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<p class="color-brown">Under the guise of a routine checkup, I set up an appointment to see our doctor before we quit our jobs and lost our medical benefits.</p>
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<p class="color-brown"><strong>Under the guise of a routine checkup, I set up an appointment to see our doctor before we quit our jobs and lost our medical benefits.</strong></p>
<p>I didn&#8217;t need the doctor to check me out; I wanted her to check out my list of  First Aid supplies for our boat.  Paul and I were going to sail around the world and I had no idea what medical emergencies we might face.</p>
<p>Dr. Smith smiled when I confessed the real reason for my visit.  A sailor herself, she gamely reviewed my list, took some notes and then handed me a catalogue of first aid kits for Emergency Medical Technicians.  She suggested that I order one of these First Aid kits as they were more complete than the average camping kit.  She also asked me to return in a week, with my husband, two oranges and 2 pigs&#8217; feet.</p>
<p>A week later, during her lunch hour, she taught Paul and I how to give the orange injections.  Apparently injecting an orange, with its tough outer peel and soft interior, was similar to giving a person a shot.  Then she made slits in the pigs&#8217; feet and showed us how to sew basic sutures before passing the feet to us to stitch up.  I was surprised at how rubbery and impenetrable the skin was, and each haphazard stitch I made marked my struggle.  Paul&#8217;s stitches, on the other hand, were evenly spaced and neatly done.<span id="more-7568"></span></p>
<p>When Paul saw my needlework, he exclaimed, &#8220;<em>I hope I don&#8217;t need any stitches!</em>&#8220;  Then Dr. Smith pulled out her pen and pad and wrote us eight prescriptions, mainly for broad-spectrum antibiotics and eye/ear ointments.  She also recommended two books we should have on board:  The Merck Manual of Medical Information (Home Edition) and the PDR Nurse&#8217;s Drug Handbook.</p>
<p>When our First Aid kit arrived, I examined it before adding our prescription medicine to the huge fluorescent bag.  Then I headed to Walmart for an &#8220;over-the-counter&#8221; shopping spree, stocking up on items that we currently used, such as Blistex, antacid tablets, Advil, hydrocortisone cream, Benadryl, and Bandaids.  I also purchased seasickness tablets, in various formulations.  This completed our kit.</p>
<p>We seldom needed our well-stocked First Aid kit during our four-year cruise, which took us from Charleston, SC, to New Zealand and then north to Micronesia and finally back to San Francisco.  A little squirt of Bactine and an ordinary bandage took care of most of our injuries.</p>
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<p class="color-brown-light"><strong>That is until we reached Katiu, an atoll in the Tuamotu Archipelago</strong>.</p>
<p>Paul somehow punctured his arm on a rusty chain link fence.  I applied my usual Bactine and Bandaid therapy to his small dot-like wound and figured I had fixed the problem.</p>
<p>A couple of days later, as we were sailing to another atoll 35 miles away, Paul complained that his arm felt numb.  And the numb feeling was spreading into his hand and shoulder.</p>
<p>Through satellite e-mail, I set up a SSB radio call to our friends on another boat a hundred miles away; the wife was a nurse.  Over the radio, she asked what antibiotics we had on board.  I pulled out our list and read them to her; she whistled in admiration when she learned how well-equipped we were.</p>
<p>Thank you Dr. Smith!  Our nurse friend put Paul on a course of penicillin and days later, his infection was gone.</p>
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<p><strong>Two more years passed before we needed our First Aid kit again.</strong></p>
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<p>In Abaiang, an atoll in Kiribati, Paul got bit by dozens of mosquitos while climbing a coconut tree at dusk.  When he returned to the boat, he was so proud of the coconuts that he neglected to mention the mosquitos.</p>
<p>Days later, I found him kowtowing on our bed in pain, rocking himself and begging me to turn off the lights (which weren&#8217;t on).  I suddenly realized the downside of being off the &#8220;beaten path:&#8221; there were no friends to call over the radio.  Due to interference, we were too far away even for the SSB sailing nets.</p>
<p>I consulted our Merck Manual and thought he had the symptoms of a sinus infection; Paul had been spearfishing in Abaiang and he liked to dive deep.  But the course of antibiotics I prescribed to him did nothing to alleviate his pain; on the contrary, it seemed to be increasing.  He also developed a high fever.</p>
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<p>Thankfully, we had sailed back to Tarawa, the capital of Kiribati, before his symptoms appeared.  So I dinghied ashore and phoned one of the island&#8217;s doctors who concluded that he must have gotten Dengue Fever.  She said I could bring him to the hospital to stay but there was nothing they could do for him.</p>
<p>I opted to keep him on board, where we had safe drinking water, a gentle breeze that kept away the mosquitoes and a mattress on our bed.   Trying to lower Paul&#8217;s high fever in the equatorial heat was not easy but I spritzed him &#8211; often! &#8211; with a water bottle which caused my husband to moan even more.  Days later, the pain became intolerable.  I reached into our large First Aid kit and pulled out the strongest pain relief medicine we had onboard.  It was a narcotic nasal spray that gave him temporary relief and, once again, I was thankful for Dr. Smith&#8217;s foresight.</p>
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<p>It took weeks for Paul to fully recover from his bout with Dengue and while he was ill, I played nurse and Captain.  We were anchored off of Betio, and whenever the trade winds shifted &#8211; as they frequently did that January &#8211; land became a lee shore.  Shipwrecked fishing boats littered the coral reef behind our boat and I was forced to maintain anchor watches.  That was in addition to the daily maintenance of living on a boat:  charging the batteries, running the fridge/freezer,  making water during an incoming tide, checking the snubber, and stowing items whenever the boat started bouncing around.</p>
<p>When I wasn&#8217;t tending to Paul or to the boat, I was looking after newest crew member:  a 2-month old I-Kiribati baby whom we were in the process of adopting.  So, in my &#8220;free time,&#8221; I washed diapers, sterilized bottles, fed and played with our beautiful daughter.</p>
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<td class="caption" style="text-align: center;" valign="top">I steer our 42-foot Tayana sailboat, <span class="boat_name">Cherokee Rose</span>, out of Tarawa&#8217;s lagoon while our newest crew member, Jessica, watches. We were excited to be sailing to Abaiang, not knowing what lay ahead&#8230;</td>
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<p>I felt overwhelmed.  Then I realized how lucky I was:  at least we were anchored at an atoll that had doctors and a small hospital.  Imagine if his symptoms had appeared while we were on passage?  How would I have coped?  Would I have reefed the sails, heaved-to, returned to our last port or carried on?  Paul and I had never considered  this scenario.  But, if there is one thing that cruising has taught me, it is this: I am capable.  Somehow, I would have managed.</p>
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<p class="color-red" style="text-align: center;"><strong>Here are my tips for First Aid Afloat:</strong></p>
<ul>
<li><strong>Take a couple of First Aid classes</strong> before you leave shore, and bring your textbook(s) on board for reference.</li>
<li><strong>Try to find a doctor with sailing experience</strong> to advise you on your First Aid kit. Ask around at your marina; ask your sailing buddies. Or talk to your usual doctor, but explain that you might be 20 days from land when a medical emergency arises so you &#8211; and your First Aid kit &#8211; need to be prepared.</li>
<li><strong>Buy a well-stocked First Aid kit</strong> as your primary one; buy a compact one for your grab bag, in case you have to suddenly abandon ship.</li>
<li><strong>Purchase the latest editions of</strong> the <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0743477332/ref=as_li_tf_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=0743477332&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=wacblog1-20" target="_blank">The Merck Manual of Medical Information: 2nd Home Edition</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=wacblog1-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0743477332" alt="" width="1" height="1" border="0" />as well as the <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1563638061/ref=as_li_tf_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=1563638061&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=wacblog1-20" target="_blank">PDR Nurse&#8217;s Drug Handbook.</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=wacblog1-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=1563638061" alt="" width="1" height="1" border="0" />Both are invaluable. The latter one contains useful information about prescribing medicine that is not included on the prescription label; the Merck Manual (Home Edition) uses terms that a normal person can understand.The third most-consulted book I had aboard is <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0942364155/ref=as_li_tf_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=0942364155&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=wacblog1-20" target="_blank">Where There Is No Doctor: a village health care handbook</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=wacblog1-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0942364155" alt="" width="1" height="1" border="0" />by David Werner with Carol Thuman and Jane Maxwell (and published by the Hesperian Foundation). This gem offers basic first aid techniques using limited help and supplies.</li>
<li><strong>Consider how you might handle a medical emergency</strong> at sea or at anchor, with cruisers nearby or on your own. Make a plan. Hopefully you will never need it.</li>
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<h5>About Kelly Watts</h5>
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<p>Kelly Watts is the author of <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0987454803/ref=as_li_tf_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=0987454803&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=wacblog1-20" target="_blank">Sailing to Jessica</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=wacblog1-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0987454803" alt="" width="1" height="1" border="0" />an account of her and her husband&#8217;s 4-year sailing adventure that took them halfway around the world…and lead them to their baby daughter on a remote Pacific Island.</p>
<p>Tania Aebi, author of <em>Maiden Voyage</em>, said &#8220;<em>The details of Paul and Kelly&#8217;s journey will bring the reader aboard the roller coaster ups and downs of the cruising life, the seemingly endless frustrations mitigated by unforgettable friendships, joy and awe that make it all so worthwhile, an experience of a lifetime. Here is an inspirational couple who recognized an opening in their lives and seized a moment leading to the kinds of memories that only a life at sea can bring . .</em> .&#8221;</p>
<p>After enduring a gale at anchor and nearly losing their lives, with baby Jessica on board, Kelly and Paul decided to return to life-on-land but the cruising spirit has never left them. They and their two children have lived in the United States, India and now reside in Australia.</p>
<p>Prior to writing her book, Kelly has produced and/or written articles for national magazines such as <em>Blue Water Sailing</em>, <em>Better Homes and Gardens</em> and <em>Hometown Cooking</em>. She also had a weekly food column for the <em>Milwaukee Journal Sentinel</em> and the <em>St Paul Pioneer Press</em> for several years. For more information, visit the <em>Sailing to Jessica</em> website <a href="http://www.sailingtojessica.com" target="_blank">www.sailingtojessica.com</a>.</p>
<p><span class="publication">Sailing to Jessica</span> is available  on <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0987454803/ref=as_li_tf_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=0987454803&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=wacblog1-20" target="_blank">amazon.com</a><img style="margin: 0px !important; border: currentColor !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=wacblog1-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0987454803" alt="" width="1" height="1" border="0" /> (paper and Kindle edition) and <a href="&quot;https://itunes.apple.com/us/book/sailing-to-jessica/id578943759?mt=11&quot;" target="_blank">iTunes</a>.</p>
<p>Here is the book trailer:</p>
<p><iframe src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/eOMaK6ELmfI" frameborder="0" width="420" height="236"></iframe></p>
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<h5>More on this website</h5>
<ul>
<li class="note"><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/admirals-angle/2008/01/17-the-need-to-know/">The need to know</a> <em><em>(Admirals&#8217; Angle column #17):</em></em>Suddenly alone: A true story illustrating why women on boats need to have the skills and attitude to meet challenges</li>
<li><a class="note" href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/resources.htm#Health"><em>Heath &amp; Medical: Women &amp; Cruising Resources</em></a></li>
<li class="note"><em><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/store-reference-books.htm#Medical">Medical books recommended by Women &amp; Cruising</a> (from the Women &amp; Cruising Bookstore &#8211; Reference Books)</em></li>
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<h5>More from the web</h5>
<ul class="note">
<li><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0743477332/ref=as_li_tf_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=0743477332&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=wacblog1-20" target="_blank">The Merck Manual of Medical Information: 2nd Home Edition</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=wacblog1-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0743477332" alt="" width="1" height="1" border="0" /></li>
<li><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1563638061/ref=as_li_tf_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=1563638061&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=wacblog1-20" target="_blank">PDR Nurse&#8217;s Drug Handbook 2013</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=wacblog1-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=1563638061" alt="" width="1" height="1" border="0" /></li>
<li><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0942364155/ref=as_li_tf_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=0942364155&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=wacblog1-20" target="_blank">Where There Is No Doctor: a village health care handbook</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=wacblog1-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0942364155" alt="" width="1" height="1" border="0" />, by David Werner with Carol Thuman and Jane Maxwell</li>
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		<title>Book Review: The Boat Galley Cookbook, by Shearlock and Irons</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Apr 2013 12:31:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gwen Hamlin</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Although it is a hefty paperback, <span class="publication">The Boat Galley Cookbook</span> by cruisers Carolyn Shearlock and Jan Irons is likely to help raise your waterline, because it consolidates in one volume many culinary resources cruising chefs have previously felt obliged to carry.</p>
<p>Indeed, no  cruising cookbook I have ever seen has so deliberately set out to  [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="pic-right" style="display: inline; border-width: 0px;" title="The Boat Galley Cookbook" src="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2012/09/TBGCover.jpg" alt="The Boat Galley Cookbook" width="200" />Although it is a hefty paperback, <span class="publication">The Boat Galley Cookbook</span> by cruisers Carolyn Shearlock and Jan Irons is likely to help raise your waterline, because it consolidates in one volume many culinary resources cruising chefs have previously felt obliged to carry.</p>
<p>Indeed, no  cruising cookbook I have ever seen has so deliberately set out to be a comprehensive examination of how to meet the challenges of cooking afloat.  “<em>We each faced a huge learning curve when we first began cruising</em>,” say the authors, “<em>so, we’ve tried to pass on all the  things we wish we’d known!</em>”</p>
<p><em><span id="more-7660"></span>The Boat Galley Cookbook</em> is divided into two main sections.  In the first – “A Galley Frame of Mind” – the authors present tips on how to adjust your thinking from land to sea.  They advise on how to outfit your galley from scratch, make good provisioning choices for your voyage (including figuring out options available in foreign markets), and effectively store and protect various foodstuffs for passages.</p>
<p>Possibly  the most important section in the whole cookbook is the one on how to make  intelligent substitutions when some important recipe ingredient – like  buttermilk or sour cream &#8212; is not available.  (I can’t tell you how many times in a remote location this chapter would  have been a godsend!)  Another chapter  summarizes all the measurement equivalents and conversions you’re likely to  encounter moving from country to country.  There is even a chapter introducing some less familiar cooking  techniques that we cruisers pick up – like cooking in a thermos or baking in a  pressure cooker.  Before <em>The Boat Galley Cookbook</em> cruising cooks had to collect this information willy nilly.</p>
<p>Two  other helpful chapters in the section zero in on the very pertinent issues of  planning meals for underway consumption and on the special concerns when stormy  weather is on the horizon.</p>
<p>The Recipes section of <em>The Boat Galley Cookbook</em> shows equal consideration  for cruisers’ needs.  The section starts “Meal  Ideas for the Boating Life” with nine lists of recipe “inspirations” for  different situations, for example, ideas for breaking the monopoly of  sandwiches for lunch, good one-pot meals, hot weather meals,  and five-minute appetizers.  They have even specifically cross-referenced recipes for creatively using such cruiser standbys as pasta and cabbage!</p>
<p>Finally,  running my eye through the recipes themselves, it seems like they have covered  almost everything anyone could ever want to do.  Nineteen sub-sections of recipes run from beverages and breakfasts right  through desserts, plus there’s a section on using canned meats and one on  meatless main dishes.  I was pleased to find  many cruiser favorites typically shared around the fleet like Chinese Cole Slaw  and Fish Sausage, and I particularly double-checked the recipe for the  “Tropical Painkiller” – what could be called the national cocktail of the  Virgin Islands (and so often over-looked) to be sure it was accurate.  It was!</p>
<p>About  the only remotely critical observation I could make on this wonderful  compendium is that the recipes seem based primarily on ingredients already  well-known to North American cooks without exploring the unusual vegetables,  fruits, products or dishes we encounter in the lands we have sailed to  visit.   Although the authors encourage  readers to be bold in asking about unfamiliar vegetables in open markets,  include some tips about shopping in Central American “<em>mercados</em>”, and provide a  useful key to deciphering cuts of meat in Spanish (you will need a magnifying  glass to read this section), they do not go much into specifics.  In a book this comprehensive about everything  else, this would have been a welcome inclusion.</p>
<p>On  the other hand, cruisers spend a lot of time trying to reproduce the flavors of  home in situations far from home, and <em>The Boat Galley Cookbook</em> will  prove itself a valuable aid in so doing.</p>
<p class="note"><span class="publication">The Boat Galley Cookbook: 800 Everyday Recipes and Essential Tips for Cooking Aboard</span>  is available on <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0071782362/ref=as_li_tf_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=wacblog1-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=0071782362" target="_blank">Amazon.com.</a><img src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=wacblog1-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0071782362" alt="" width="1" height="1" border="0" /></p>
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<h6>More info</h6>
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<li class="note">Buy The Boat Galley Cookbook on <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0071782362/ref=as_li_tf_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=wacblog1-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=0071782362" target="_blank">Amazon.com.</a><img src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=wacblog1-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0071782362" alt="" width="1" height="1" border="0" /></li>
<li class="note">Learn more about the Boat Galley Cookbook: <a href="http://theboatgalley.com/cruisers-cookbook/" target="_blank">Boat Galley website</a></li>
<li><span class="note">Watch this video to meet the two authors (Carolyn Shearlock and Jan Irons) and learn how the book came to be:</span><br />
<iframe src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/KK21PQyhHoY" frameborder="0" width="350" height="240"></iframe></li>
<li class="note"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/TheBoatGalley" target="_blank">The Boat Galley Facebook page</a></li>
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<h6>More on this website</h6>
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<li class="note"><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/tag/book-review/">All book reviews</a></li>
<li class="note"><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/galley-18-advice.htm">Galley Advice from 18 Cruising Women</a>: 18 cruising women offer tips and advice for setting up your galley and cooking aboard, discuss the gear that they couldn&#8217;t live without, and invite you into their galleys.</li>
<li class="note">Carolyn Shearlock: <a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/2012/05/carolyn-shearlock-everything-i-needed-to-know-to-go-cruising/" target="_blank">Everything I needed to know to go cruising &#8230;</a></li>
<li class="note">Jan Irons: <a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/2012/07/plan-ahead-to-make-lemonade-from-lemons/" target="_blank">Plan ahead to make lemonade from lemons</a></li>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>If you have a book that<br />
like us you would like to review,<br />
let us know!</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;">Email <a href="mailto:kathy@forcruisers.com">kathy@forcruisers.com</a> or leave a comment below.</p>
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		<title>Video: Kids speak their own minds about cruising</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nadine Slavinski</dc:creator>
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During our stay in Tauranga, New Zealand, the kids from two boats (<span class="boat_name">Namani</span> and <span class="boat_name">Alouette</span>) really hit it off. One activity they particularly enjoyed was learning to program computer graphics using a program called KTurtle.</p>
<p>Seeing their enthusiasm for this, we parents agreed to assign the kids a group project as part of their  [...]]]></description>
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During our stay in Tauranga, New Zealand, the kids from two boats (<span class="boat_name">Namani</span> and <span class="boat_name">Alouette</span>) really hit it off. One activity they particularly enjoyed was learning to program computer graphics using a program called KTurtle.</p>
<p>Seeing their enthusiasm for this, we parents agreed to assign the kids a group project as part of their home schooling: to create a video documentary about life on a sailboat. The idea was for our children to learn new computer skills while producing an informative and interesting video, not to mention having fun.<span id="more-7278"></span></p>
<p>We thought it might take them one to two days, and they ended up taking four to produce quite a good five minute video. The video met all the requirements we set, which included a minimum length, use of different scenes / transitions / titles, as well as including a musical clip and credits. They decided that their audience would be kids who were familiar with sailing but hadn’t been cruising. The project also called on the organizational framework they usually call on for written reports: brainstorming, planning, outlining, drafting, editing, and finally, presenting their work.</p>
<p>As so often happens with boat kids, the three worked very well together despite only having recently met and an age range of 9-14. They worked very independently of outside guidance, taking advantage of a lounge room and power supply in the marina we were staying in while completing projects on our boat.</p>
<p>The assignment also met another important requirement: giving the kids something fun and interesting to do while we parents were occupied with repairs! Markus of <span class="boat_name">Namani</span> acted as tech support, but for the most part, the kids were able to figure out the home video-making program (“kdenlive”) through logic, trial, and error, and the resulting video is entirely their own work.</p>
<p>To follow up the assignment, each of the kids wrote a reflection on the project (what worked well, what we could have done differently, what was difficult, etc). Katie, Nicky, and William are quite proud of their work and justifiably so.</p>
<p>It’s great to let kids speak their own minds about cruising, and we hope that others will find their work interesting and informative.</p>
<p class="color-pink"><strong>• Watch the video on NAMANI&#8217;s website and read Nicky&#8217;s reflection on the movie-making assignment:</strong><br />
<a href="https://sites.google.com/site/namaniatsea/nicky-s-page/boat-life---the-kid-s-perspective" target="_blank">Boat life &#8211; the kid&#8217;s perspective</a><br />
<span class="note">A video documentary about what it is like to live on a sailboat by Katie, William and Nicky</span><br />
<a href="https://sites.google.com/site/namaniatsea/nicky-s-page/boat-life---the-kid-s-perspective" target="_blank"><img style="border-width: 0px; display: block;" title="" src="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/kids-speak-2.jpg" alt="" width="350" /></a></p>
<p><span class="color-pink"><strong><strong>•  </strong>Watch the video on Vimeo:</strong></span><br />
<a href="http://vimeo.com/58241254" target="_blank">vimeo.com/58241254</a></p>
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<h5>More:</h5>
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<li><a href="https://sites.google.com/site/namaniatsea/nicky-s-page" target="_blank"><strong>Nicky&#8217;s school projects</strong></a> (Nicky&#8217;s webpage on Namani&#8217;s website)</li>
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<h5>About Nadine Slavinski</h5>
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<p>Nadine Slavinski is the author of <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/098277141X/ref=as_li_tf_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=098277141X&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=wacblog1-20" target="_blank">Lesson Plans Ahoy: Hands-On Learning for Sailing Children and Home Schooling Sailors</a>.<img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=wacblog1-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=098277141X" alt="" width="1" height="1" border="0" /></p>
<p><span style="font-size: small;">Nadine is a sailor, teacher, and parent. She  holds a Master’s Degree in Education from Harvard University. She has been teaching in international schools since 1996.</span></p>
<p>A  lifelong sailor, she has taken two extensive sailing sabbaticals with  her husband and young son. Living aboard their 35 foot sloop <span class="boat_name">Namani</span>  for three years, the family sailed from the Mediterranean to Maine, and later,  from Maine to the Caribbean and across the Pacific.</p>
<p>Articles by Nadine Slavinski have appeared in various sailing magazines and websites, including <em>Cruising World,</em><em> Blue Water Sailing, Caribbean Compass, </em>and <em>YachtPals</em>. Her website, <a href="http://www.sailkidsed.net/" target="_blank">www.sailkidsed.net</a> lists many free resources for home schooling sailors.</p>
<p><span class="publication">Lesson Plans Ahoy (Second Edition)</span> is available from:<br />
- amazon.com (<a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/098277141X/ref=as_li_tf_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=098277141X&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=wacblog1-20" target="_blank">Print</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=wacblog1-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=098277141X" alt="" width="1" height="1" border="0" />and <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00BNCP94Q/ref=as_li_tf_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=B00BNCP94Q&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=wacblog1-20" target="_blank">Kindle</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=wacblog1-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=B00BNCP94Q" alt="" width="1" height="1" border="0" />edition)<br />
- and <a href="http://www.createspace.com/3579769" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">CreateSpace.com</a><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00BNCP94Q/ref=as_li_tf_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=B00BNCP94Q&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=wacblog1-20"> </a><br />
For details check <a href="http://www.sailkidsed.net/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.sailkidsed.net</a>.</p>
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<h5>More from this website</h5>
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<li><a href="http://womenandcruising.com/cruising-children-speak.htm">Cruising children speak</a>: Cruising children tell us about their experiences growing up aboard</li>
<li><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/2010/12/6-tips-for-home-schooling-sailors/">6 Tips for home-schooling sailors</a>, by Nadine Slavinski</li>
<li><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/sailing-family-nadine-slavinski.htm" target="_blank">Nadine Slavinski answers 12 questions on sailing as a family aboard NAMANI</a></li>
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		<title>Book Review:  Tightwads on the Loose, by Wendy Hinman</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Mar 2013 14:33:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gwen Hamlin</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p> After finishing Wendy Hinman’s Tightwads on the Loose, I placed it on my bookshelf next to Jana Cawrse Esarey’s  The Motion of the Ocean and Torre DeRoche’s Swept: Love with a Chance of Drowning,  because, like those two books,  Tightwads on the Loose is a brightly-written sailing memoir by a young female cruiser from  [...]]]></description>
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<p>All three books speak for a younger generation who choose to reach for the adventure of crossing oceans and exploring new cultures sooner rather than later, who go despite tight budgets in small, uncomplicated boats without waiting for the comforts and wallets of middle age, and who, because they are women, don’t gloss over the challenging dynamics of relationships shared and tested in the intense intimacy of cruising 24/7 in the confines of a small vessel</p>
<p>There are several differences, however, between <strong><em>Tightwads on the Loose</em></strong> and the other two books.<span id="more-7471"></span></p>
<p><img class="pic-right" style="margin: 0px; display: block; border-width: 0px;" title="Wendy Hinman" src="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/Wendy-Hinman.jpg" alt="Wendy Hinman" width="225" />The chief one is that while Janna and Torre spent much of their time pondering the degree (and sanity) of their commitment to the cruising endeavor (while largely relying on their more experienced partners), Wendy is a full-fledged collaborator from the start.</p>
<p>She, too, has a serious, more experienced sailor for a husband, but from the start she is in it to win it. You might say that Janna and Torre are (or at least start out as) girly girls, but Wendy makes you believe that she was infected by a taste for adrenalin since childhood, inculcated, she insists, by her father’s library of disaster-at-sea stories.</p>
<p><strong>I was thrilled at last to read a contemporary sailing saga where the woman aboard is so fully engaged.</strong></p>
<p>Another difference is that <strong><em>Tightwads</em></strong>  is the account of a longer, seven year cruise (pushing northward into the north Pacific,  Micronesia, the Phillipines, China and Japan), an itinerary that required Wendy and Garth to stop and work several times along the way to replenish the cruising kitty and make repairs.  Earning money is an issue many young couples considering cruising ask about, and this  couple’s resourcefulness in finding employment should be inspirational as well as entertaining.</p>
<p>One might think, because all three authors set sail across the Pacific from the West coast, that the stories could feel repetitive.  Certainly there are harbors all three visit, especially in the first legs of the journey, but it is testimony to the uniqueness of every cruise that each landfall feels fresh, each new character encountered a privilege to meet, and every adventure a stimulant to get out and do it yourself!</p>
<p class="note"><span class="publication">Tightwads on the Loose: A Seven Year Pacific Odyssey</span> is available through <a onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('/outgoing/www.createspace.com/3718084');" href="http://www.createspace.com/3718084" target="_blank">the Tightwads on the Loose eStore</a>, through your <a href="http://wendyhinman.com/tightwads-on-the-loose/indie-bookstores-that-carry-tightwads-on-the-loose/" target="_blank">independent bookseller</a> or <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0984835008/ref=as_li_tf_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=0984835008&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=wacblog1-20" target="_blank">amazon.com.</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=wacblog1-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0984835008" alt="" width="1" height="1" border="0" /></p>
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<h6>More from this website</h6>
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<div class="note"><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/2011/09/book-review-swept-love-with-a-chance-of-drowning-by-torre-deroche/">Book review &#8211; Swept: Love With a Chance of Drowning, by Torre DeRoche</a>: Review by Gwen Hamlin</div>
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<div class="note"><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/2012/12/janna-cawrse-esarey-sailing-as-a-metaphor-for-marriage/">Sailing as a Metaphor for Marriage</a>, by Janna Cawrse Esarey</div>
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<div class="note"><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/tag/book-review/">All book reviews</a></div>
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<div class="note"><a href="http://wendyhinman.com/" target="_blank">Wendy Hinman&#8217;s website</a></div>
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<p style="text-align: center;">Email <a href="mailto:kathy@forcruisers.com">kathy@forcruisers.com</a> or leave a comment below.</p>
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		<title>Two day hands-on program on Cruising just for Women – Annapolis, MD &#8211; April 25-26, 2013</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Mar 2013 09:53:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kathy Parsons</dc:creator>
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<p>I’d like to let you know about the <span class="publication">Cruising Women program</span> that Pam Wall, Beth Leonard and I will be giving at <span class="organization">Cruisers University</span> on April 25-26 in Annapolis, Maryland.</p>
<p>Last April, as Pam Wall and I finished our second year as faculty at Cruisers University, (a fun weekend in Annapolis of in-depth courses  [...]]]></description>
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<p>I’d like to let you know about the <span class="publication">Cruising Women program</span> that Pam Wall, Beth Leonard and I will be giving at <span class="organization">Cruisers University</span> on April 25-26 in Annapolis, Maryland.</p>
<p><strong>Last April, as Pam Wall and I finished our second year as faculty at Cruisers University</strong>, (a fun weekend in Annapolis of in-depth courses to prepare people for cruising), we were approached by Paul Jacobs, the director of Cruisers University and manager of the Annapolis Sailboat and Powerboat Shows:</p>
<p>“<em>I would like you two to put together an in-depth two-day program on cruising, just for women</em>.”</p>
<p>TWO DAYS! Imagine what we could do in two whole days –MUCH, MUCH more than is ever possible in a one hour Women and Cruising seminar! Of course we were excited! But….</p>
<p>“<em>We want BOATS – we don’t want to do this all in a classroom – we want to take women aboard several boats, and spend time aboard learning about the equipment and routines aboard. To see it, touch it, use it…”<span id="more-7489"></span></em></p>
<p>“<em>Fine</em>”, said Paul.</p>
<p>“<em>And</em>”, we said, “<em>We would like to invite our good friend, Beth Leonard, to join us – together the three of us would make a fantastic team. We want to give women a variety of perspectives to help each woman find her own unique answers</em>.”</p>
<p>“<em>Excellent</em>”, said Paul.</p>
<p><strong>Since then, Pam, Beth and I have been planning how to make the most of this fantastic opportunity to introduce women to, and prepare women for, cruising.</strong></p>
<p>We women approach cruising from various perspectives. For some of us, it was first the dream of our husband, or boyfriend or partner, and our first question was “<em>What is cruising like? Do I want to do it?”</em> For others, it was an individual or joint dream – we LIKE the idea of cruising, but don’t know if we are skilled enough, smart enough, young enough, rich enough, brave enough to pull it off….</p>
<p>And for yet others, we KNOW we want to go cruising, we know we can do it, and we want to acquire the skills and knowledge so we can get out there and make a success of cruising.</p>
<p>This course is designed for all of these women, to answer their questions and needs. First of all, we are going to introduce you to cruising, help you learn what it is like, in all its variations – aboard sailboat and powerboat, cruising close to home, or to the Caribbean, or around the world – sailing with your partner, or family, or by yourself. We are going to cover the skills that you need to acquire and help you figure out what you know already and what you still need. We will spend time aboard several different boats, in small groups, learning about the equipment that we live with, discussing daily routines, what works and what doesn’t.</p>
<p>And most importantly, you will have LOTS of time to ask your questions and to raise your concerns about cruising. This is a very personal, and fun course. We will talk, laugh, tie knots, heave lines, poke around with equipment, discuss ALL your questions and practical issues – and come out of this whole weekend ready to understand the cruising life to make your dream come true.</p>
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<p><strong>We hope you can join us – the Cruising Women 2-day program will take place, during the Annapolis Spring Sailboat Show, April 25-26 in Annapolis, Maryland, as part of the 4-day Cruisers University</strong>.</p>
<p>Registration for this unique event is through <a href="http://www.usboat.com/cruisers-university/home" target="_blank">Cruisers University</a>. For those of you who might want to attend Cruisers University as a couple, there are programs on Diesel Maintenance or Weather (or other elective classes on Friday) that your partner might want to attend while you are in the Cruising Women program. And there are lots of elective classes that either of you can attend after the class on Saturday and Sunday – everything from outfitting to weather to cruising the Bahamas or Caribbean.</p>
<p>For more information, contact <a href="http://www.usboat.com/cruisers-university/home" target="_blank"><strong>Cruisers University</strong></a>, or Nancy Grisham at 410-263-7802. You may also contact me, Pam Wall or Beth Leonard for more information on our program. We look forward to a fun and rewarding and empowering weekend with you!</p>
<p>Best,<br />
Kathy Parsons</p>
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<h5 class="color-pink">About us</h5>
<h5>Kathy Parsons<br />
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<p>In 20+ years of live-aboard cruising, Kathy Parsons has sailed the US, Bahamas, Caribbean, Central and South America aboard four cruising boats ranging from 30 to 42 feet. Kathy Parsons is well-known in the international cruising community for her books <span class="publication">Spanish for Cruisers</span> and <span class="publication">French for Cruisers</span> &#8211; language guides used by thousands of boaters around the world to help them communicate as they sail in foreign countries. Kathy is also the founder of the <span class="publication"><strong>Women and Cruising</strong></span> website and seminars. The <a href="http://WomenandCruising.com" target="_blank">WomenandCruising.com</a> website provides resources, advice and inspiration for women sailors. Over a thousand women (and men) have attended <em>Women and Cruising</em> seminars, getting answers to the questions they have about cruising.</p>
<p><strong>Contact: <a href="mailto:kathybparsons@gmail.com">kathybparsons@gmail.com</a></strong></p>
<h5>Pam Wall<br />
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<p>Pam Wall was raised in Chicago sailing summers with her father on Lake  Michigan.  While attending University of Wisconsin she became the first  woman president of the Hoofers, the sailing club at University of Wisconsin.  Pam had their honeymoon sailing her husband Andy&#8217;s 30 foot sloop across the  Atlantic.  Three years later they sailed home from Europe to begin building  KANDARIK their Freya 39, hull number ONE!  In 1985 Pam and Andy set out  around the world on <span class="boat_name">KANDARIK</span> with their two children.  Six years later they  returned to Fort Lauderdale, and Pam got a job at West Marine as the  Outfitting Manager and Cruising Consultant.  Pam can be seen at boat shows  across the country giving seminars with Kathy Parsons and her own seminars  on outfitting, cruising, product knowledge and more.  Check out her  web-site, <a href="http://www.pamwall.com" target="_blank">www.pamwall.com</a></p>
<p><strong>Contact: <a href="mailto:pam@pamwall.com">pam@pamwall.com</a></strong></p>
<h5>Beth Leonard<br />
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<p>Beth Leonard is the Director of Technical Services for <span class="organization">BoatUS</span> and Technical Editor for all <span class="organization">BoatUS</span> publications. Before joining <span class="organization">BoatUS</span>, Beth<em> </em>and her husband, Evans Starzinger, completed two circumnavigations and logged more than 110,000 nautical miles. Between 1992 and 1995, they sailed westabout by way of the Panama Canal, Torres Straits and the Cape of Good Hope aboard their Shannon 37, <em class="boat_name">Silk</em>. They spent four years ashore building their 47-foot aluminum Van de Stadt Samoa sloop, <em class="boat_name">Hawk</em>, before leaving again in 1999.<em> </em>They completed a ten-year, eastabout circumnavigation by way of all of the Great Capes that took them as far north as the Arctic Circle and as far south as Cape Horn. Beth has written hundreds of articles for more than a dozen sailing magazines including <em>Cruising World</em>, <em>Practical Sailor</em>, <em>Good Old Boat</em>, and <em>Yachting World</em>. Beth is the author of three books: <em class="publication">The Voyager’s Handbook</em>, <em class="publication">Following Seas </em>and the award-winning <em class="publication">Blue Horizons</em>.</p>
<p><strong>Contact: <a href="mailto:bleonard@boatus.com">bleonard@boatus.com</a></strong><br />
Website: <a href="http://www.bethandevans.com" target="_blank">www.bethandevans.com</a></p>
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		<title>2 Extreme: Step aboard a global abode</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 08 Mar 2013 23:20:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Cyndi Perkins</dc:creator>
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<p>“The world was theirs” is Mattie McAlarney’s favorite headline written about her seven-and-a-half-year trip around the world with husband Henry. The couple wrapped up a 70-country cruise aboard their 39-foot Corbin Center Cockpit <span class="boat_name">2 Extreme</span> in 2009.  “I wanted to be home for my 70th birthday,” Mattie tells me as I admire the aft-cabin  [...]]]></description>
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<p>“<em>The world was theirs</em>” is Mattie McAlarney’s favorite headline written about her seven-and-a-half-year trip around the world with husband Henry. The couple wrapped up a 70-country cruise aboard their 39-foot Corbin Center Cockpit <span class="boat_name">2 Extreme</span> in 2009.  “<em>I wanted to be home for my 70<sup>th</sup> birthday,</em>” Mattie tells me as I admire the aft-cabin curtains sewn from hand-embroidered silk fabric bought in some exotic eastern market. “<em>I made it back a year early.</em>”</p>
<p>Since then <span class="boat_name">2 Extreme</span> has been on the market. Media outlets ranging from Pacific-based sailing magazines to Pasco County Florida’s local newspaper has interviewed this fascinating couple with so many stories to tell.<span id="more-7436"></span></p>
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<p>Mattie and Henry keep <span class="boat_name">2 Extreme</span> at Anclote Isles Marina in Tarpon Springs, Florida, an easy drive from their land home. When the newlyweds decided to go &#8217;round the world&#8217;, they sold their house in Summerland Key, but retained the digs up North on Florida’s West Coast near Tarpon Springs. And so it was that Henry and Mattie volunteered to pick us up at Tarpon Springs City Marina on an early December morning for a tour of the 1979 Corbin. We’d already viewed <span class="boat_name">2 Extreme</span> and her stats on-line.</p>
<p>We have learned through experience that absolutely nothing beats seeing, smelling, touching and hearing the actual boat on site as it is. Scott keeps a boat-shopping list; we’ll call or e-mail the seller to arrange a showing when we’re in the neighborhood. The quest is proving to be enriching in ways I’d never imagined, allowing us to meet fascinating sailors while touring their equally fascinating vessels.</p>
<p>In addition to on-line research such as owner listings and group sites, I always take lots of snapshots when we’re looking at a boat. In the moment, you may not notice every little detail. Pictures bring into focus both pros and cons when formulating a decision.</p>
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<p>This particular Corbin had been on Scott’s list for some time. Her overall length is listed as 38’2” with a 32’ LWL and a 12-foot beam.</p>
<p>Not super-sized compared to our current 32-foot DownEast, but definitely larger in terms of storage and working areas on and below deck. Powered by a 1987 Perkins 4-108 Diesel (91-gallon fuel tank capacity), the 22,800-pound vessel officially drafts 5.6’ &#8211; Henry notes that when she’s fully loaded draft is closer to six feet.</p>
<p>The Corbin, designed by Robert Dufour of Montreal, Quebec, carries an 822-square-foot sail area. While not known as the fastest in the bunch, doing 5 knots on a good day with a max cruising speed of 6 knots, this bluewater sailing vessel is, as Marius Corbin requested and Henry and Mattie can attest, a boat that can be sailed safely and comfortably around the world. The Corbin 39 was produced from 1979-1990. The original molds were lost in a fire; post-1982 the vessel continued to be produced with reduplicated molds due to its popularity.</p>
<p>When you spot this boat at a dock, its spacious, uncommon flush deck is one of the first things you notice. Henry says he knew he was a goner the minute Mattie saw <span class="boat_name">2 Extreme</span>, as a flush deck was one of her not-debatable conditions.</p>
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<p>Aboard <span class="boat_name">2 Extreme</span>, Mattie shows the “girl stuff” while Henry, an accomplished maritime professional with impressive racing and commercial credentials, takes Scott over the details from the sail plan to the engine room. Interests, anecdotes and technical exchanges often overlap as we explore every nook and cranny.</p>
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<p>For example, I call Scott’s attention to the clever “en place” pots and pans storage in a cunning drawer beneath the nav station opposite the galley. Mattie tries to scramble out of the frame as I snap, shooting me a dirty look when I catch her. She doesn’t tell me I can’t take her picture, but I have a feeling that if I asked her to pose she’d give me a flat-out “<em>no</em>.” So I don’t ask.</p>
<p>Scott taught me to cook; we share galley duties on our boat. Neither one of us thinks the stove on <span class="boat_name">2 Extreme</span> is adequate. <span class="boat_name">Chip Ahoy</span> has four burners. We can never go back to two, no matter how cleverly this little beauty is gimbaled side-to-side, so the hot stuff won’t fly out at you in rough seas. Mattie demonstrates her favorite heavy-weather cooking position, with one foot braced against the companionway ladder. “<em>I can peel five pounds of potatoes like this</em>,” she rightfully brags.</p>
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<p>Stoves are easy enough to replace and most other aspects of the boat are more generously proportioned than our current living space.  Of all of the Corbin’s attributes, for Scott and me the tastiest carrot dangled before the horse is storage. This vessel abounds with it, from the lazarettes holding propane tanks and on-deck essentials to the dry-as-a-bone bilge cubbies accessed via the floor of the solid-teak interior cabin. There’s even a secret spot; can’t tell you where that is.</p>
<p>The couple was just married when they embarked on their circumnavigation. Mattie had zero experience. She says she’d always dreamed about sailing – the water called to her – but boats hadn’t ever been a part of her life.</p>
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<p>The super-experienced Henry knows a well-found vessel when he sees one. He saw no need to engage a surveyor and he was comfortable singlehanding as needed.</p>
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<p>The couple learned what the boat could do as they went. Purchased in the water, <span class="boat_name">2 Extreme</span> wasn’t hauled out until Trinidad. Mattie says the country lived up to its festive reputation at Carnival time, as well as being a good place to work on the boat.</p>
<p>Being completely new to sailing, Mattie’s learning curve was steep; she was not at all interested in heeling.</p>
<p>Heeling happened eventually, as it will on a sailboat. The wind doesn’t really care if you’re a newbie awed into a panic by its powers.</p>
<p>Mattie shakily ordered Henry to not go up on deck the first time they hoisted too much canvas. He explained to her there was no other choice if she wanted the freight train to slow down.</p>
<p>This was her baptism into the odd and revered school of salts known in some circles as “People of the Cloth.”</p>
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<p>She never learned to handle sails or the anchor, or any of that stuff. But Mattie proved her mettle on watches. Able to go for many hours without sleep, Mattie took every night watch, all night. There were times when she had to wake him up. But it’s safe to say he got more shuteye than one might expect with a novice partner.</p>
<p>Mattie’s windblown hair shows that she has given up taming who she is. Her beauty and force of personality is forged by all the things she’s experienced.</p>
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<p>We’ve clicked in that magically instantaneous way that sometimes bonds certain cruisers, and I feel free to pepper her with questions about her trip around the world.</p>
<p>“<em>So here’s the cliché question, what about pirates</em>?”</p>
<p>Mattie said the only problem was at anchor in Tanzania, when “a big black dude” came on board off the stern. Henry firmly assured the intruder that the couple had the means to get him off the boat if he didn’t leave under his own steam. He seemed to understand, retreating. A couple hours of later, around 4 a.m. the miscreant came back and they went through the same routine. Then they hauled anchor and left, seeing as no one was going to get any more sleep that night, anyway.</p>
<p>“<em>Next question: which country exceeded expectations and which was not so great, although you anticipated it would be fabulous?</em>”</p>
<p>“<em>Yemen was great,</em>” she says. “<em>We met a taxi driver who took us around to all the sights</em>.” Mattie notes that the travel climate is not as favorable today, post-911. “<em>This is probably not the time</em>,” she says, noting that many passage makers they know are sticking to the Pacific these days.</p>
<p>The Galapagos gets her vote for most overrated destination. “<em>It was not what you see on National Geographic</em>,” she says, explaining that wildlife encounters were chiefly staged in arranged park settings.</p>
<p>Surprising sights awaited elsewhere. For example, “<em>Everyone grows pot in their yards in the Marquesas,</em>” she says, chuckling. “<em>It’s on vacant lots, everywhere.</em>”</p>
<p>Clearing in and out of countries was normally no problem. Mattie’s pick for most obnoxious bribery is Egypt, where boarding customs officials brazenly brought an empty suitcase they expected to be filled.</p>
<p>Wherever they went, the couple enjoyed trading for artwork and other regional goodies. Mattie carried a Ziploc bag full of make-up (especially lipsticks) and perfume. “<em>It doesn’t even have to be new,</em>” she says. Hair ornaments, clothes of any kind and cigarettes are also very popular. If she went back to Africa, she says she would bring lots of toddler-size shorts and boxers for the kids, who ran around naked by necessity, not tradition.</p>
<p>“<em>We only came home once, for Henry’s father’s 80<sup>th</sup> birthday,</em>” she says.</p>
<p>“<em>We didn’t change the name. I hope no one ever does,</em>” says Mattie.</p>
<p>Besides pants for little bottoms, Mattie would also have a watermaker on board to supplement the 80-gallon water tank capacity if “we did it again.”</p>
<p>“<em>But I’m not gonna do it again. Seven-and-a-half years was enough. Henry would go around the world again. I just don’t want to. It just became too stressful</em>.” And there’s that infectious twinkle in her eyes again, with a bit of a challenge thrown in. “<em>But Cyndi, if I was 10 years younger I would.</em>”</p>
<p>As we went over <span class="boat_name">2 Extreme</span> from stem to stern, the couple received an offer over the phone. Henry passed up to the cockpit a folded slip of paper. Nosy journalist that I am, I didn’t think twice about reading the message in reverse. Mattie knew it, and we exchanged smiles. “<em>It looks like we both have a lot to talk over with our mates today,</em>” I said. “<em>No matter what happens, I’m so glad we met.</em>”</p>
<p>Scott and I decided to keep looking for the “right” boat for us. We heard that the offer on <span class="boat_name">2 Extreme</span> didn’t pan out. I continue to follow her status with interest; this boat – and Mattie’s story – is a hard one to get out of my head. I’m glad to know that the world was hers.</p>
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<h5>About Cyndi Perkins</h5>
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Freelance writer and editor Cyndi Perkins shares her liveaboard adventures in numerous nautical publications, including the book “<em><strong>Women On Board Cruising</strong></em>”. She recently completed her first novel manuscript, “<em><strong>Loop Dee Doo,</strong></em>” and is taking the book to market in 2013.</p>
<p>For more info on Corbins and a word from Marius Corbin himself, check out the owners’ page at <a href="http://www.corbin39.com" target="_blank">www.corbin39.com</a></p>
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<h5>More from this website</h5>
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<li><span class="note">People Who&#8217;ve Inspired Us: </span><a class="note" href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/2013/01/suzi-wallace-sparrow-on-the-horizon/" target="_blank">Sparrow on the horizon</a><span class="note">, by Suzi Wallace</span></li>
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