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		<title>Hands on and personal – Cruising Women 2-day program in Annapolis, April 23-24</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Kathy Parsons]]></dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[We are now only one month away from the 2 day Cruising Women program that we will be giving in Annapolis, Maryland on April 24-25, 2014. The program last year was AMAZING! We had so much fun. Please come join us! Here are the ...<a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/2015/03/hands-on-and-personal-cruising-women-2-day-program-in-annapolis-april-2015/"><strong>Read more</strong></a>]]></description>
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<p>We are now only one month away from the <strong>2 day Cruising Women program</strong> that we will be giving in <strong>Annapolis, Maryland on April 23-24, 2015</strong>. The program last year was AMAZING! We had so much fun. Please come join us! Here are the details.</p>
<p><strong>Pam Wall, Beth Leonard and Kathy Parsons</strong> team up to offer an in-depth two-day program just for women &#8211;  to introduce women to, and prepare them for cruising.</p>
<p><strong>This program is directed to women</strong>:</p>
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<li>who are introduced to the dream of cruising by a husband, or boyfriend or partner, and want to know “<em>What is cruising like? &#8212; Do I want to do it?</em>”</li>
<li>who <b>like</b> the idea of cruising with their partner or even alone, but don’t know if they are skilled enough, smart enough, young enough, rich enough, or  brave enough to pull it off….</li>
<li>who <b>know</b> they want to go cruising, and now want to acquire the skills and knowledge to get out there and make it safe and fun.</li>
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<p><span id="more-8563"></span><strong>For all these women, we have organized a unique program</strong> to answer your questions and give you the skills and knowledge you will need:</p>
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<li>First of all, we introduce you to cruising, help you learn what it is like, in all its variations – aboard sailboat and powerboat, cruising close to home, or to the Caribbean, or around the world –  sailing with your partner, or family, or by yourself.</li>
<li>We cover the skills that you need to acquire and help you figure out what you know already and what you still need. We assist you in putting together your personal plan to go cruising.</li>
<li>We spend time aboard several different boats, in small groups, learning the jargon, the equipment that we live with, discussing daily routines and safety, what works and what doesn’t.<br />
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<li>And most importantly, you will have LOTS of time to ask your questions and to raise your concerns about cruising.</li>
<li>This is a very personal, and fun course. We will talk, laugh, tie knots, heave lines, poke around with equipment, discuss ALL your questions and practical issues. You will come out of this weekend with an understanding of the cruising life and ready to make your dream come true.<br />
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<p>We hope you can join us – the <strong>Cruising Women 2-day program will take place,</strong> during the <em>Annapolis Spring Sailboat Show</em>, April 23, 24 in Annapolis, Maryland, as part of the <em>4-day Cruisers University</em>.</p>
<p><strong>For more information, contact Cruisers University:</strong> <a href="http://www.usboat.com/cruisers-university/home" target="_blank">www.usboat.com/cruisers-university/home</a>, or Nancy Grisham at 410-263-7802. We look forward to a fun and rewarding and empowering weekend with you!</p>
<p><strong>Comments from women attending the 2013 Cruising Women seminar</strong>:</p>
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<li><i>There is no way to express my gratitude for how gracious you <b><span style="text-decoration: underline;">all</span></b> are! You truly made me feel like there is no stupid question.  Your range of experiences and expertise was amazing and very much a blessing!</i></li>
<li><i>It takes the fear factor out of cruising.</i></li>
<li><i>It reassured me that I am not foolish or crazy for pursuing this dream, this lifestyle. It also helped me believe that I can learn the skills needed to do this, even be <b>good</b> at it!</i></li>
<li><i>Thanks so much for all the sharing, information, humor, and encouragement. And so non-intimidating! It was great! We appreciate all of you. Terrific job!</i></li>
<li><i>This seminar assured me even more that this is what I want to do and took some of my fears and worries away.</i></li>
<li><i>The dynamic of the three instructions was phenomenal!</i></li>
<li><i>Even though cruising seems scary sometimes, you have all made it seem very possible!! Thank you so much!</i></li>
<li><i>The wide range of topics covered answered many questions I didn’t know I had.</i></li>
<li><i>I found that other women have the same fears and concerns that I had.</i></li>
<li><i>Hearing the instructors’ first hand experiences was invaluable.</i></li>
<li><i>Great, enthusiastic instructors who clearly love cruising.</i></li>
<li><i>Totally enjoyed it!</i></li>
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		<title>Improve your skills with 4 long-distance sailing women &#8211; Marblehead, MA &#8211; Saturday, June 1</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 09 May 2013 23:24:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Betsy Morris]]></dc:creator>
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The Women&#8217;s Sailing Conference, held each June in Marblehead, is great fun. I&#8217;ve been involved one way or another many times. It amazes me how many women come back year after year. It also astounds me how quickly and enthusiastically women learn from each other.</p>
<p>This year the conference is about women extending their range. That ...<a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/2013/05/women-sailing-conference-marblehead-ma-2013/"><strong>Read more</strong></a>]]></description>
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The <strong class="color-green">Women&#8217;s Sailing Conference</strong>, held each June in Marblehead, is great fun. I&#8217;ve been involved one way or another many times. It amazes me how many women come back year after year. It also astounds me how quickly and enthusiastically women learn from each other.</p>
<p><img class="pic-right" style="margin: 0px; display: block; border-width: 0px;" title="" src="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/women-sailing-logo.jpg" alt="" width="225" />This year the conference is about women extending their range. That might mean different things to different participants:</p>
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<li>First overnight cruise</li>
<li>Doing all the navigating for a short trip</li>
<li>Going to Maine for two weeks</li>
<li>Crossing the Gulf Stream</li>
<li>Moving aboard</li>
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<p>The one-day conference &#8211; <strong class="color-green">Saturday, June 1, 2013</strong> &#8211; will be moderated by <a href="http://www.bethandevans.com/" target="_blank"><em>Beth Leonard</em></a>, long-time and long-distance sailor and Technical Editor for <a href="http://www.boatus.com/" target="_blank">BoatUS</a> publications.</p>
<p>Panelists are</p>
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<li><em>Capt. Sharon Renk-Greenlaw</em>, owner of <a href="http://www.womenundersail.com/" target="_blank">Women Under Sail </a>in Maine;</li>
<li><em>Capt. Nancy Erley</em> of Seattle, founder of <a href="http://tethysoffshore.com/" target="_blank">Tethys Offshore</a> who has twice circumnavigated with all-women crews;</li>
<li>and me, <em>Betsy Morris</em> of Marblehead, a long-time cruiser.</li>
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<p>There&#8217;s more information available at <a href="http://www.womensailing.org" target="_blank"><strong>www.womensailing.org</strong></a>, including the registration form. There&#8217;s a nice discount for those registering before May 15th.</p>
<p>I can&#8217;t wait to see who&#8217;ll attend this year.</p>
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		<title>Where to begin?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 01 May 2011 00:14:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Gwen Hamlin]]></dc:creator>
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<span class="note">My husband and I are very serious about eventually enjoying the cruising lifestyle.</span>
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<p class="note">• We are presently up against many challenges, least of those is not having any experience sailing. We live in central Ohio, therefore our opportunities to learn to sail are fairly limited.  I have done some extensive research about sailing ...<a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/2011/04/where-to-begin/"><strong>Read more</strong></a>]]></description>
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<td><span class="note">My husband and I are very serious about eventually enjoying the cruising lifestyle.</span><br />
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<p class="note">• We are presently up against many challenges, least of those is <strong>not having any experience sailing.</strong> We live in central Ohio, therefore our opportunities to learn to sail are fairly limited.  I have done some extensive research about sailing and have decided that we just need to take a week long certification class and get that taken care of.</p>
<p class="note">• We are both 40 and in 5 years our children will all be out of the nest.  I have always been a &#8220;fly by the seat of my pants&#8221; kind of person, so my fear is minimal, but my husband is an organized, bit conservative fellow. <strong>Do we sell our home and all of our belongings and just jump right in, or do we keep those assets just in case?</strong></p>
<p>• <span class="note"><strong>Where do you feel the best places in the world are to sail? </strong>How do we know what is required for different countries? We have been researching the Caribbean, but I love Bali and Thailand too. </span></p>
<p><span class="note">Thank you very much for your time.  Any advice will be immensely appreciated, as we are feeling a bit lost and overwhelmed right now.<br />
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<p class="note">Sincerely,<br />
Amy</p>
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<h4 class="color-brown-light">Gwen Hamlin answers.</h4>
<p><img class="pic-left" style="display: inline; border-width: 0px;" title="Gwen Hamlin" src="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/wac-gwen-hamlin.jpg" alt="Gwen Hamlin" width="150" height="150" />Dear Amy!  Wow!</p>
<p>What you are asking is what everybody wants to know, and those of us who have &#8220;been there/done that&#8221; have answers&#8230;but not necessary the formula that will be what you end up following.</p>
<p>That, of course, is what <a href="http://womenandcruising.com/" target="_blank">Women and Cruising</a> and my column <a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/admirals-angle/" target="_blank">Admirals&#8217; Angle</a> are all about, trying to present a bunch of building blocks so you can see how others have done it and pick and choose the bits that will work for you.<span id="more-4090"></span></p>
<h5 class="color-brown-light">Let me just say that coming from the mid-West is not the ultimate handicap.</h5>
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<td class="caption" style="text-align: center;" valign="top">In 1989, Shelly &amp; Randy Tucker, from Tennessee, chartered with Gwen Hamlin on s/v WHISPER. 8 years later, they bought their own charterboat, THREE MOONS, and &#8230;they are still in the yacht charter business!.<br />
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<p>My husband got started with Hobie 16s on a reservoir in Indianapolis that was so small he could tack down it in 15-20 minutes (hence the name <span class="boat_name">Tackless</span> for his first and second monohulls  because (heh heh)..he tacked less!)</p>
<p>When I was in the charter business, my very first season, I had a young couple from Tennessee book my boat.  Where they got the bug from I don&#8217;t know, but we had a grand week, after which they went back, bought a small fixer-upper to sail on a local lake, sold it, stepped up to a bigger fixer-upper&#8230;and so on.</p>
<p>Then they bare-boated in the Virgin Islands, then they started organizing bareboat groups to the Virgin Islands, and then nearly eight years later, they actually bought their own charter boat, a huge Irwin 65, and came to the islands as I was leaving to go cruising in 1998/9.  There are still at it!  <em>(See <cite><a href="http://www.sailthreemoons.com/" target="_blank">www.sailthreemoons.com</a></cite><cite>.)</cite></em></p>
<p>So a crewed charter, where you can fully enjoy the lifestyle but also benefit from learning one-on-one from an experienced captain (be sure to make clear to your charter broker what you hope to get out of your charter!) is a very valuable education masquerading as a vacation.  Particularly if you have curiosity about the charter business yourselves.</p>
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<p>You might also want to look into  <a href="http://www.beyc.com/index.php/women-on-the-water-week.html" target="_blank">Women on the Water Week</a>, a favorite project of Pam Wall&#8217;s, which takes place at Bitter End Yacht Club (Virgin Gorda, British Virgin Islands) in the summers.</p>
<p>Many women feel that having the chance to learn sailing fundamentals on their own, away from the shadow of their usually stronger, often more experienced partners makes a huge difference.  Husbands just can&#8217;t stop being protective and chivalrous and wives tend to defer in areas they aren&#8217;t knowledgeable about.</p>
<p>Take a course together later, maybe even someday on your own boat!  Having an instructor oversee the working systems the two of you will need to work out would have to make that whole process go more efficiently,  I had Kiwi friends who did just that on their boat before leaving New Zealand northward on their first cruise.</p>
<h5><span class="color-brown-light">Do we sell our home and all of our belongings and just jump right in? </span></h5>
<p>Finally, re destinations and jumping right in&#8230;go cautiously to start; hedge your bets to whatever extent your finances will allow.  Don&#8217;t sell out your house, if you live in an area it will be hard to come back to if you feel strongly about coming back there.  But your kids will be grown and may not settle where you were anyway, so often selling leaves you more flexible for future choices.  I&#8217;ve written about this process a couple of times in my <a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/admirals-angle/" target="_blank">Admiral&#8217;s Angle columns</a>.</p>
<p>But regardless, take at least one year in a cruising ground from which you can realistically return, both to shake yourselves down and your boat.  For the East Coast that is usually the Bahamas or the Caribbean, and for the West Coast that is usually Mexico or Central America.</p>
<p>You know, cruising is a wonderful lifestyle, but it doesn&#8217;t turn out to be for everybody.  I&#8217;ve just been talking with a late 50s couple who&#8217;ve just returned from 18 months up the East Coast.  Perhaps it was just bad luck, but the weather seemed to be against them continuously.  Stopovers were more expensive than they anticipated, and it turned out the two of them expected different things from their destinations.  Plus they stayed in the US, which to me is a different kind of cruising than I experienced.</p>
<p>We have many other stories to read on <span class="publication">WomenAndCruising.com</span>, particularly on the <a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/sailing-families.htm" target="_blank">&#8220;12 questions to 12 sailing Families&#8221; page</a>.  In fact <a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/sailing-family-kim-petersen.htm" target="_blank">Family #12</a> is a family that left with two teenagers!  Perhaps you will find inspiration to go NOW!</p>
<h5 class="color-brown-light"><strong>Where do you feel the best places in the world are to sail? </strong><strong>How do we know what is required for different countries?</strong></h5>
<p><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/World_Cruising_Destinations.jpg"><img style="display: inline; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; border-width: 0px;" title="World_Cruising_Destinations" src="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/World_Cruising_Destinations_thumb.jpg" border="0" alt="World_Cruising_Destinations" width="199" height="244" align="right" /></a>For cruising info, most of us get basic info from reference books and/or (these days) websites.  Tons of that info is available on <span class="publication">WomenandCruising.com</span> on the page called <a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/resources.htm" target="_blank">Resources</a>.  On that page, under Reference Books, are some links to recommended reading.  Anything by Jimmy Cornell will give you info about places, particularly his new book<a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0071638245?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=womeandcrui-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0071638245"> World Cruising Destinations</a>.</p>
<p>Also, one of the first things you should do is join the <a href="http://www.ssca.org" target="_blank">The Seven Seas Cruising Association (SSCA)</a> as an Associate Member.  This gets you their monthly Bulletin which will immerse you in the real world of cruising.  SSCA has conventions (called Gams) around the country several times a year where you will meet real cruisers and partake of good seminars.  SSCA has taken that a step further with their <a href="http://www.sevenseasu.com/7seasu/" target="_blank">Seven Seas U (SSU)</a>, an online cruising university.  Excellent webinars (including ours) are available right in the comfort of your own home.</p>
<p>Finally, favorite places will be different depending to whom you speak.  Some people love the Caribbean, we loved Mexico and Central America (which were not even on our original plan!), others love the history and cultures of the Med.  The South Pacific and Indonesia and Thailand are also great destinations, but they are BIGGER COMMITMENTS (esp with what&#8217;s going on in the Middle East),  and, frankly, the weather is not as pleasant as the south sea tales make out!</p>
<p>I once had a mentor who always said, with reference to those of us living the boating life, &#8220;<em>We have a responsibility because we are living other people&#8217;s dreams.</em>&#8220;  What HE meant, was that we had to live the life to the biggest, fullest extent, and never cast a critical word.  But I, on the other hand, have always felt that trying to be realistic &#8211; to share some particulars of the not-so-great with the great &#8211; is the only fair way when asked for counsel on such a huge life choice.</p>
<p>So, hope I&#8217;ve been helpful.</p>
<p>Good luck,<br />
Gwen Hamlin</p>
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<h6>Read also on this website</h6>
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<li class="note"><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/resources.htm" target="_blank">Cruising Resources for Women Cruisers</a></li>
<li class="note"><em><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/admirals-angle/2006/11/3-getting-started/" target="_blank">Getting Started</a> (Admiral’s Angle column #3) &#8211; </em>Examples of how (and when) some experienced cruisers got started show you don’t have to be a life-long sailor to take off cruising.</li>
<li class="note"><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/admirals-angle/2007/09/13-keeping-a-home-back-home/" target="_blank">Keeping a Home Back Home </a><em>(Admiral’s Angle column </em>#13<em>)</em> &#8211; Perspectives on the tough decision between selling all or keeping a home back home</li>
<li class="note"><a href=" http://www.womenandcruising.com/admirals-angle/2009/04/32-how-we-choose-where-we-cruise/" target="_blank">How We Choose Where We Cruise – Part 1</a> <em>(Admiral’s Angle column </em>#32<em>)</em> &#8211; Resources and strategies for planning your voyage to match your interests.</li>
<li class="note"><a href=" http://www.womenandcruising.com/admirals-angle/2009/05/33-how-we-choose-where-we-cruise-part-two/" target="_blank">How We Choose Where We Cruise – Part 2</a> <em>(Admiral’s Angle column </em>#3<em>3)</em> &#8211; The role of whim, spontaneity and flexibility in voyage planning.</li>
<li class="note"><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/admirals-angle/2011/01/53-%E2%80%93-how-does-chartering-fit/" target="_blank">How Does Chartering Fit </a><em>(Admiral’s Angle column </em>#<em>53) &#8211; </em>A look at how various chartering options may fit in at different stages of sailors’ cruising goals</li>
</ul>
<h6>More information (External links)</h6>
<ul>
<li class="note"><a href="http://www.beyc.com/index.php/women-on-the-water-week.html" target="_blank">Women on the Water Week</a></li>
<li class="note"><a href="http://www.ssca.org" target="_blank">The Seven Seas Cruising Association</a></li>
<li><span class="note"><a href="http://www.sevenseasu.com/7seasu/" target="_blank">Seven Seas U<br />
</a></span></li>
<li class="note"><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0071638245?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=womeandcrui-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0071638245" target="_blank"><em>World Cruising Destinations: An Inspirational Guide to All Sailing Destinations </em></a>at Amazon.com</li>
</ul>
<blockquote><p>If you have a question about going cruising that you want answered,<br />
- email it to: <a href="mailto:kathy@forcruisers.com">kathy@forcruisers.com</a>,<br />
- or join the next Women and Cruising <a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/seminars.htm" target="_blank">webinar</a>!</p></blockquote>
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		<title>Join two-time circumnavigator Nancy Erley at the Women&#8217;s Sailing Conference</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[NWSA's 9th annual Women's Sailing Conference is only two weeks away! Come join us! It will take place Saturday June 5, 2010 at the Corinthian Yacht Club on beautiful Marblehead Harbor in Massachusetts. Nancy Erley, two-time circumnavigator, calculates that this will be her 6th year at the conference. ...<a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/2010/05/join-two-time-circumnavigator-nancy-erly-at-the-womens-sailing-conference/"><strong>Read more</strong></a>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>NWSA’s 9th Annual <a href="http://www.womensailing.org/">Women’s Sailing Conference</a> (a <em>Take the Helm</em>® event) is only two weeks away! Come join us! It will take place Saturday June 5, 2010 at the Corinthian Yacht Club on beautiful Marblehead Harbor in Massachusetts.</p>
<p>Nancy Erley, two-time circumnavigator, calculates that this will be her 6th year at the conference. One year she traveled all the way from London to attend!</p>
<p>Why does she keep coming back as a volunteer instructor?</p>
<p>Nancy says: “<strong><em>I love being with a big group of women who all love what I love – sailing.  And this is a very well organized conference at an exceptional venue. </em></strong>“</p>
<p>We asked Nancy to tell us about the workshops she will be giving this year:</p></blockquote>
<p>This year I’m giving 3 workshops:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/nwsadocking.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px 0px 0px 10px; display: inline; border-width: 0px;" title="NWSA docking practice" src="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/nwsadocking_thumb.jpg" border="0" alt="NWSA docking practice" width="204" height="170" align="right" /></a></p>
<h6>1. How to turn your boat around in tight spaces using spring lines:</h6>
<p>I’ll show where to tie the line in order to drive against it and spring the boat away from the dock.  </p>
<p>We will use a boat at the dock and flip it around every which way with whatever long lines we can find aboard. </p>
<p>We may be tying two dock lines together to get the length we need to turn the boat completely around at the dock without the engine.</p>
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<p><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/nwsaheavelinenancy.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px 0px 0px 10px; display: inline; border-width: 0px;" title="NWSA-heaving-line" src="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/nwsaheavelinenancy_thumb.jpg" border="0" alt="NWSA-heaving-line" width="204" height="166" align="right" /></a></p>
<h6>2. How to heave a line:</h6>
<p>We will toss at a lawn chair for target practice using 50’ heaving lines that I’ve made with a monkey’s fist on the end. </p>
<p>We’ll also use spare old halyards and see that they toss pretty well too if coiled right, and Hall Spar and Rigging is donating 2 lines for us to toss as well.</p>
<h6><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/SunriseSunset0274.jpg"><img style="display: inline; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; border-width: 0px;" title="Sunset at sea" src="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/SunriseSunset0274_thumb.jpg" border="0" alt="Sunset at sea" width="204" height="136" align="right" /></a> 3. Night Sailing:</h6>
<p>This is an classroom presentation about the awesomeness of sailing at night on the ocean and how to keep watch coupled with the details of lighted aids to navigation and lights on vessels.</p>
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<h6><em>About the Women’s Sailing Conference</em></h6>
<p>NWSA’s 9th annual <a href="http://www.womensailing.org/">Women’s Sailing Conference</a> (a <em>Take the Helm</em>® event) will take place Saturday June 5, 2010 at the Corinthian Yacht Club on beautiful Marblehead Harbor in Massachusetts.</p>
<p>It’s a full day of learning, sailing, sharing, networking, and good fun. You can participate in a variety of workshops for women of all sailing abilities, presented by some of the best women sailors around.</p>
<p>You can select on-land and on-water workshops that match your interests and abilities. (Registration is on a first-come, first-served basis, and you must sign up in advance.)  Both NWSA members and non-members are welcome. </p>
<p>Women and Cruising founder Kathy Parsons will be the keynote speaker at the evening’s dinner, so come join us!</p>
<p><strong><em><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/nwsa-logo-small.jpg"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-2816" title="nwsa-logo-small" src="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/nwsa-logo-small.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="113" /></a>For more information and to register:</em></strong></p>
<p>Visit the website of the <a href="http://www.womensailing.org/">National Women’s Sailing Association</a>. You will find information on the conference on the home page with a link to the registration form and conference schedule.</p>
<p><em><strong>See also:</strong></em></p>
<ul>
<li><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/2010/04/see-you-at-womens-sailing-conference-2010/">See you at the Women’s Sailing Conference June 5, 2010 in Marblehead, MA!</a> (our first blog post announcing the conference)</li>
</ul>
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<h6><em><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/nancyerly.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px 0px 0px 10px; display: inline; border-width: 0px;" title="nancy-erley" src="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/nancyerly_thumb.jpg" border="0" alt="nancy-erley" width="204" height="227" align="right" /></a> About Nancy Erley</em></h6>
<p>Nancy Erley led two voyages from Seattle around the world aboard her Orca 38 sailboat, <span class="boat_name">Tethys</span>.</p>
<p>“As the skipper of an all-woman crew, Nancy fashioned a circumnavigation that should go down in the record books as one of the soundest, most seamanlike journeys in the modern cruising era. Like all competent voyages, <span class="boat_name">Tethys</span> circumnavigation was notable for its lack of disasters.” George Day, publisher <span class="publication">Blue Water Sailing</span> magazine.</p>
<p>Founder of Tethys Offshore, Nancy teaches the skills to take a small boat across an ocean, from competent crew to ocean skipper. She holds her USCG 50-ton Master of Oceans and 100-ton Master Near Coastal licenses, is an Instructor Evaluator-Ocean for the International Sail and Power Association, a ham radio operator (ki7dp), and an advanced scuba diver and delivery skipper.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/boat.jpg"><img style="display: inline; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; border-width: 0px;" title="boat" src="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/boat_thumb.jpg" border="0" alt="boat" width="240" height="182" align="right" /></a> In 2006 Nancy was presented with the Leadership in Women’s Sailing Award sponsored by BoatUS and the National Women’s Sailing Association. The award honors a male or female who has built a record of achievement in inspiring, educating and enriching the lives of women through sailing.</p>
<p>Nancy is now in the Pacific Northwest scheduling learning cruises for women aboard <span class="boat_name">Tethys</span>. She also offers private instruction aboard the learner’s boat for both men and women, ocean deliveries as captain or onboard advisor, and voyaging consultation. Her website is <a href="http://www.tethysoffshore.com/">www.tethysoffshore.com</a></p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Apr 2010 19:53:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Kathy Parsons]]></dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/nwsafunfriendship.jpg"></a> Would you like to improve your sailing skills while meeting lots of cool women and having FUN?</p>
<p>Sign up for NWSA&#8217;s 9th annual <a href="http://www.womensailing.org/" target="_blank">Women’s Sailing Conference</a>, a Take the Helm® event!</p>
<p>It will take place Saturday June 5, 2010 at the Corinthian Yacht Club on beautiful Marblehead Harbor in Massachusetts. (I will be there!)</p>
<p>It’s a ...<a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/2010/04/see-you-at-womens-sailing-conference-2010/"><strong>Read more</strong></a>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/nwsafunfriendship.jpg"><img style="display: inline; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; border-width: 0px;" title="A full day of learning, sailing, sharing, networking and fun. Photo: Bill Scanlon" src="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/nwsafunfriendship_thumb.jpg" border="0" alt="A full day of learning, sailing, sharing, networking and fun. Photo: Bill Scanlon" width="244" height="149" align="right" /></a> Would you like to improve your sailing skills while meeting lots of cool women and having FUN?</p>
<p>Sign up for NWSA&#8217;s 9th annual <a href="http://www.womensailing.org/" target="_blank">Women’s Sailing Conference</a>, a <em>Take the Helm</em>® event!</p>
<p>It will take place Saturday June 5, 2010 at the Corinthian Yacht Club on beautiful Marblehead Harbor in Massachusetts. (I will be there!)</p>
<p>It’s a full day of learning, sailing, sharing, networking, and good fun. You can participate in a variety of workshops for women of all sailing abilities, presented by some of the best women sailors around. <span id="more-2678"></span></p>
<p>The conference is a great way to learn more about sailing, acquire new tactics and techniques, hone your nautical skills, and meet women who share your interest and enthusiasm for being on the water.</p>
<p>You can select on-land and on-water workshops that match your interests and abilities. (Registration is on a first-come, first-served basis.)</p>
<p>Take a chance on winning exciting prizes in the raffle and silent auction, with proceeds benefiting the National Women&#8217;s Sailing Association (NWSA) AdventureSail® program for young girls at risk.</p>
<p>Here are this year’s workshops:</p>
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<h4>Workshops on Land</h4>
</td>
<td width="315" valign="top"><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/nwsacleatpractice.jpg"><img style="display: inline; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; border-width: 0px;" title="Knots and cleating off, Photo: Bill SCanlon" src="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/nwsacleatpractice_thumb.jpg" border="0" alt="Knots and cleating off, Photo: Bill SCanlon" width="264" height="244" align="left" /></a> </td>
</tr>
</tbody>
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<td width="168" valign="top"><strong>Charting*</strong></td>
<td width="315" valign="top">Hands-on experience reading charts and plotting courses.</td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td width="168" valign="top"><strong>Finding a Fix*</strong></td>
<td width="315" valign="top">Must have basic understanding of charting &amp; finding lat/long. Bring handheld compass.</td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td width="168" valign="top"><strong>Knots to Know</strong></td>
<td width="315" valign="top">Learn to tie basic knots and practice their best applications.</td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td width="168" valign="top"><strong>Heave a Line</strong></td>
<td width="315" valign="top">Learn how to throw a line. An emergency is not the time to learn this skill.</td>
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<td width="168" valign="top"><strong>Understanding the Wind</strong></td>
<td width="315" valign="top">How to work with the wind – the foundation of sailing knowledge</td>
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<td width="168" valign="top"><strong>Suddenly Singlehanded</strong></td>
<td width="315" valign="top">Suddenly you’re alone on the boat. How to get help and get home.</td>
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<tr>
<td width="168" valign="top"><strong>Troubleshooting a Diesel Engine</strong></td>
<td width="315" valign="top">Overview of a diesel engine and basic troubleshooting.</td>
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<td width="168" valign="top"><strong>Long-term Cruising</strong></td>
<td width="315" valign="top">How to plan for health, safety, comfort, food &amp; drink, repairs, insurance, chart kits etc.</td>
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<tr>
<td width="168" valign="top"><strong>Night Sailing</strong></td>
<td width="315" valign="top">Skills and hints for safe sailing after dark.</td>
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<td width="168" valign="top"><strong>Using Spring Lines</strong></td>
<td width="315" valign="top">How to get your boat out of tight places using spring lines.</td>
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<h4>Workshops on a Boat</h4>
<p>PFDs required.</td>
<td width="303" valign="top"><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/nwsaspinnakerpole.jpg"><img style="display: inline; border-width: 0px;" title="Spinnaker pole handling, Photo credit: Rebecca Waters" src="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/nwsaspinnakerpole_thumb.jpg" border="0" alt="Spinnaker pole handling, Photo credit: Rebecca Waters" width="264" height="180" /></a></td>
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<td width="168" valign="top"><strong>Boat Systems</strong></td>
<td width="315" valign="top">Explore electrical systems, marine heads, the oven, etc. – and what can go wrong.</td>
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<td width="168" valign="top"><strong>Spinnakers</strong></td>
<td width="315" valign="top">Learn to pack and set the spinnaker, jibe the pole – for the intermediate sailor.</td>
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<td width="168" valign="top"><strong>Reef, Flake, Fold Sails*</strong></td>
<td width="315" valign="top">Learn to reef, flake &amp; fold sails, sail care &amp; best methods for putting sails away.</td>
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<td width="168" valign="top"><strong>What’s on Deck?</strong></td>
<td width="315" valign="top">Learn names of rigging &amp; function; how to move around, what not to do when you’re on deck.</td>
</tr>
</tbody>
</table>
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<table border="0" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" width="488">
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<td width="183" valign="top">
<h4>Workshops on the Water</h4>
<p>PFDs required.</td>
<td width="303" valign="top"><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/nwsacrewoverboardtraining2.jpg"><img style="display: inline; border-width: 0px;" title="Women's Sailing Conference - Crew Overboard Training" src="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/nwsacrewoverboardtraining2_thumb.jpg" border="0" alt="Women's Sailing Conference - Crew Overboard Training" width="264" height="227" /></a></td>
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</tbody>
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<table border="0" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" width="485">
<tbody>
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<td width="168" valign="top"><strong>Crew Overboard</strong></td>
<td width="315" valign="top">Learn how to rescue and retrieve a person from the water.</td>
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<td width="168" valign="top"><strong>Introduction to Sailing</strong></td>
<td width="315" valign="top">Introduction to sailing skills and terminology &#8211; for novices.</td>
</tr>
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<td width="168" valign="top"><strong>Introduction to Sailing</strong></td>
<td width="315" valign="top">Enhance your knowledge of basic racing; for those now or soon to be racing.</td>
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<td width="168" valign="top"><strong>Sail Trim</strong></td>
<td width="315" valign="top">Learn how to trim your sails for optimum efficiency.– for the intermediate sailor.</td>
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<td width="168" valign="top"><strong>Take the Helm</strong></td>
<td width="315" valign="top">Practice steering the boat at various points of sail. You must know how to sail.</td>
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</tbody>
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<p>* Sessions last all morning or all afternoon.</p>
<hr size="1" /><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/nwsabanquet.jpg"><img style="display: inline; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; border-width: 0px;" title="Women's Sailing Conference Dinner, Photo: Bill Scanlon" src="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/nwsabanquet_thumb.jpg" border="0" alt="Women's Sailing Conference Dinner, Photo: Bill Scanlon" width="244" height="169" align="right" /></a>Your registration fee includes workshops, continental breakfast, lunch, dinner and keynote speaker, one raffle ticket, registrant packet, and “goodie bag.” </p>
<p>I am so HONORED to be the keynote speaker at the evening dinner this year.</p>
<p>Marblehead is a beautiful place and I am excited about the weekend. I took my very first sailing class in Marblehead years ago – and have quite a few memories of adventures around Marblehead from my first sailing days. See you there!</p>
<p>As my friend Betsy Morris,who will be giving the <strong>Long-term Cruising</strong> and <strong>Take the Helm</strong> workshops, says of the conference:</p>
<blockquote><p>“This great big room is full of women sailors &#8211; some have been around the world, some race, some merely open the beers, but every single one wants to do more and to share it with other women.  It&#8217;s uplifting!”</p></blockquote>
<p><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/nwsalogosmall.jpg"><img style="display: inline; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; border-width: 0px;" title="NWSA logo" src="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/nwsalogosmall_thumb.jpg" border="0" alt="NWSA logo" width="150" height="115" align="right" /></a>Due to space limitation, registration is on a first-come, first-served basis, and you must sign up in advance. Both NWSA members and non-members are welcome.  For more information and to register:</p>
<ul>
<li>Visit the website of the <a href="http://www.womensailing.org/" target="_blank">National Women’s Sailing Association</a>. You will find information on the conference on the home page with a link to the registration form and conference schedule.</li>
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		<title>Ruth Allen&#8217;s secret weapon against fear: the theme song from Gilligan&#8217;s Island</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Apr 2010 18:38:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Ruth Allen]]></dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My first sail was on May 24th 1999, I was 41 years old.

My husband had sailed from the time he was a young boy, starting off in dinghies. We had purchased Thetis, a Halcyon 23, restored her and were now ready to sail.

There was one small problem: her engine was ...<a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/2010/04/ruth-allen-gilligans-island-better-sailor/"><strong>Read more</strong></a>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/ruthPEBaySailingSept09.jpg"><img style="display: inline; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; border-width: 0px;" title="Ruth Allen , sailing P.E. Bay, September 2009" src="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/ruthPEBaySailingSept09_thumb.jpg" alt="Ruth Allen , sailing P.E. Bay, September 2009" width="244" height="185" align="right" border="0" /></a> My first sail was on May 24<sup>th</sup> 1999, I was 41 years old.</strong></p>
<p>My husband had sailed from the time he was a young boy, starting off in dinghies. We had purchased <em class="boat_name">Thetis</em>, a Halcyon 23, restored her and were now ready to sail.</p>
<p>There was one small problem: her engine was not functioning. A long time sailor and racer told us shove her off the dock and go sailing.</p>
<p>That first day was uneventful, the sailing was nice, and sailing to the dock went well.</p>
<p>Sailing to the dock was something we continued to do even after we had a motor, to keep in practice and because that little boat was so easy to handle.</p>
<p><strong>Our second sail was a different matter.</strong></p>
<p><span id="more-2537"></span>The winter before we launched <span class="boat_name">Thetis</span>, we had taken courses.</p>
<p>I knew all the correct names for things and some basic navigation skills but really had no practical experience. One sail does not count.</p>
<p>On that second day we ran down the reach under the genoa. It was a nice little run. As usually happens in that area the wind picked up, and when we turned to head back I felt the boat was over pressed.</p>
<p>An unsuccessful tack put us too close to a point, at least that is how it seemed to me.</p>
<p><strong>At this point I began being frightened, which was heightened when my husband said we need to raise the main.</strong></p>
<p>I thought (not understanding the balance of the sails) that if we were hard pressed with one sail, two would be entirely too much.</p>
<p>That was of course wrong…but since I was already scared I did not really process what was being explained to me.</p>
<p>The wind was picking up, white appearing on the water. We were heeled hard over, sailing on her ear as the saying goes. Very dramatic, at least to me, the wanna be sailor.</p>
<p>The main went up, the boat behaved better, until the genoa began to tear. Mark wanted me to steer while he changed head sails, I wanted to do the sail change.</p>
<p>The reach had become quite lumpy with the bow going up and down, <strong>all I could think was if it goes wrong and he goes off the boat, I don&#8217;t know enough to be able to get him out of the water!</strong></p>
<p>It was May and the waters in Lake Ontario are very cold at that time of the year.</p>
<p>I knew where I would run out of water, but that would not help a man overboard. This was a terrifying thought to me.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/gilligansislandshow.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px 0px 0px 10px; display: inline; border-width: 0px;" title="gilligans-island-show" src="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/gilligansislandshow_thumb.jpg" alt="gilligans-island-show" width="184" height="140" align="right" border="0" /></a> <strong>As I followed the calm concise instructions of Mark I began to hum the theme from the old TV show <em>Gilligan&#8217;s Island</em>.</strong> <em>(If you are unfamiliar with this song or show, see end of post.)</em></p>
<p>Sail changed down to a working jib, we made our way to our dock and sailed up to it quite nicely once again.</p>
<p><strong>I decided on that day, that I had to learn more about sail handling and boat handling. It was clearly unsafe to do anything else.</strong></p>
<p>I still hummed that tune whenever I got nervous, and I kept on sailing.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/ruthatthehelmdismalswamp.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px 0px 0px 10px; display: inline; border-width: 0px;" title="Ruth at the helm, Dismal Swamp Canal" src="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/ruthatthehelmdismalswamp_thumb.jpg" alt="Ruth at the helm, Dismal Swamp Canal" width="244" height="185" align="right" border="0" /></a>I also became the wind watcher&#8230;scanning the horizon for signs of wind changes, mostly looking for the signs of increasing wind, so we could change down sails, before becoming hard pressed.</p>
<p>The same conditions we encountered on my second sail would not be frightening to me today, which is not to say that I never get nervous.</p>
<p>Sailing more and learning more each time helps me feel more competent and less nervous.</p>
<blockquote><p><strong><em>Gilligan’s Island</em></strong></p>
<p>Quite a few of us grew up watching the TV show <em>Gilligan’s Island</em>.</p>
<p>(In case you are unfamiliar with this 1960&#8242;s sitcom, five passengers and two crew set sail on the charter boat <span class="boat_name">Minnow</span> on a three-hour cruise. They shipwreck in a storm and take refuge on an uninhabited tropical island where they remain stranded throughout the series.)</p>
<p>And perhaps it has affected our view of cruising. Here is the theme for Gilligan’s Island, thanks to YouTube.</p>
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<p><strong><em>About Ruth Allen</em></strong></p>
<p><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/ruthreadytodropinlock2.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px 0px 0px 10px; display: inline; border-width: 0px;" title="Ruth, ready to drop down in the lock" src="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/ruthreadytodropinlock2_thumb.jpg" alt="Ruth, ready to drop down in the lock" width="244" height="185" align="right" border="0" /></a> I have been living aboard <span class="boat_name">Witchcraft</span>, my Tom Colvin designed ketch for the last six years. As soon as my four children were launched my husband (Mark) and I emptied the house, and left the land behind.</p>
<p>We are not full time cruisers since we are not retired. I work at West Marine Canada which gives me the opportunity to combine work and pleasure.</p>
<p>I live in Canada and sail every chance I get. I came to sailing later in life and found a new passion.</p>
<p>Visit Ruth’s blog: <a href="http://www.mytb.org/svwitchcraft">www.mytb.org/svwitchcraft</a></p>
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<h6>Related articles</h6>
<ul>
<li class="note"><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/category/features/how-we-learn/">How We Learn</a> – Women tell us how they have learned the skills they need to sail and cruise (here on the Women and Cruising blog)</li>
<li class="note"><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/admirals-angle/2008/01/17-the-need-to-know/">The Need to Know</a> (Admiral’s Angle column #17 )</li>
<li class="note"><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/admirals-angle/2006/11/3-getting-started/">Getting Started</a> (Admiral’s Angle column #3 )</li>
<li class="note"><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/admirals-angle/2007/08/12-the-life-skills-of-black-sheep/" target="_blank">The Life Skills of Black Sheep</a> (Admiral’s Angle column #12)</li>
<li class="note"><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/resources.htm#LearningToSail" target="_blank">Learning to Sail</a> (Resource Listing on Women and Cruising’s <a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/resources.htm" target="_blank">Resources</a> page)</li>
</ul>
<h6>More info</h6>
<ul>
<li><span class="note">Ruth’s blog: <a href="http://www.mytb.org/svwitchcraft">www.mytb.org/svwitchcraft</a></span></li>
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<blockquote><p><strong>What helps when you feel afraid? What challenged you to learn to become a good sailor?</strong></p>
<p>Leave a comment below or email us: <a href="mailto:kathy@forcruisers.com">kathy@forcruisers.com</a></p></blockquote>
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		<title>Laurie&#8217;s epic journey to conquer her fear of the water</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Laurie Clark]]></dc:creator>
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I don’t know why I’m terrified of water.
<p>It’s not as though I have memories of any tragic or traumatic moment in my life, such as I’ve heard others tell when detailing their fear of the deep.</p>
<p>In fact, I remember a few family outings as a child to Terracina or Sabaudia or even San Felice (Italy) ...<a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/2010/03/lauries-epic-journey-to-conquer-her-fear-of-the-water/"><strong>Read more</strong></a>]]></description>
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<h5 class="color-brown">I don’t know why I’m terrified of water.</h5>
<p>It’s not as though I have memories of any tragic or traumatic moment in my life, such as I’ve heard others tell when detailing their fear of the deep.</p>
<p>In fact, I remember a few family outings as a child to Terracina or Sabaudia or even San Felice (Italy) &#8211; beautiful warm water – like soup actually &#8211; and beaches that stretched for miles on the Mediterranean side of Italy (just south of Rome, where I come from) that were filled with laughter and a lot of splashing.</p>
<p>Of course great food was always a requirement for these outings, making us totally stuffed and horribly heavy as we waddled back into the soup after lunch.</p>
<p>I remember the beaches seemed very long and wide, a bit of a walk to arrive at the shoreline, and the sandbars seemed to go out for miles before the deep water.</p>
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<p>My father swam well and enjoyed swimming – <strong>so why was I so frightened?</strong></p>
<h5 class="color-brown">Well, let’s do what all analysts do</h5>
<p>…let’s break it down into small sections.</p>
<p><strong>Dad swam, Mom did not</strong>, my sister didn’t when small and only does so on occasion as an adult, my brother…not sure actually. I don’t swim and my son is now terrified of water and doesn’t swim (not proud of this legacy).</p>
<p><strong>A friend once commented that Romans bathe, they don’t swim.</strong><br />
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<p>The fact that it takes a long time in order to get to deep water on the Med side of the ‘peninsula’, means that most people frolic in the surf near to shore and just sort of get wet enough for a lovely tanning session <em>(I know – NOT politically correct these days – but if you’ve been to the region, if you are now sitting on that beautiful shore or planning on being there, you have to admit that Italians are like beached smoked fish on the particular beaches I’ve mentioned.)</em></p>
<p><strong>But I’m still not convinced that genealogy or geography has anything to do with this unexplainable fear of the deep blue sea.</strong></p>
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<p>When living in Toronto with my family,<strong> any lake that we visited was deep, dark and filled with weeds </strong>that made it difficult to see anything, let alone the bottom.</p>
<p>That particular environment wasn’t welcoming, but <strong>still I don’t think this is enough</strong> to instill the kind of fear of the water that lies deep within me.</p>
<h5 class="color-brown">Let me explain.</h5>
<p><strong>I’ve been taking lessons for years.</strong></p>
<p>I was always in a school that had a pool and throughout high school, swimming or some type of aquatic activity was a requirement for gym.</p>
<p>So why was every single person who took lessons able to get over their fear and learn to swim, <strong>except me</strong>? I’ve been asking this question for years.</p>
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<p><strong>I was on the varsity diving team for goodness sakes!</strong></p>
<p>I swear. An explanation is in order:</p>
<p>I was in gymnastics for a very long time, and could tumble like the lightest weed in an arid desert.</p>
<p>On the diving team, I could get up to the tallest tower (no fear of heights), and perform the most amazing and fun tumbles (no fear of broken bones).</p>
<p>When I would enter the water…..wait for it….my coach would extend the ‘hook’ over the side of the pool so I could grapple onto it to lift myself out of the pool – like a flailing smoked fish! Needless to say, no perfect scores.</p>
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<h5 class="color-brown">OK, so let’s break it down a little more.</h5>
<p><strong>Mom was scared of the water.</strong></p>
<p>She would warn:</p>
<p><em>“Don’t go out in the water after you’ve eaten or you’ll drown”</em></p>
<p>or, <em>“Don’t go out past the surf or you’ll get towed under”</em></p>
<p>or <em>“Don’t go out too far because I can’t save you”.</em></p>
<p>Well ok – I might be getting somewhere now….but still not enough to cause this insane fear (I think).</p>
<p><strong>Let’s look at my own personality.</strong></p>
<p>I’m a control freak. Triple A is too low a category for me.</p>
<p>I have to know everything about everything I’m doing at all times as well as control it ALL and be the BEST ever at everything. And when I’m in the water, no way can I let go and just relax enough to let the buoyancy of the water help me along. NO WAY.</p>
<p>I took more swimming lessons than you care to know about or that I can even recall.</p>
<blockquote><p><em><strong>Here are some facts that I have learned about swimming over the years of endless lessons:</strong></em></p>
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<p>These are facts I’ve experienced and don’t enjoy and yet, apparently, many others have overcome. <strong>Why not me?</strong></p>
<h5 class="color-brown">In fact, I actually took up sailing to get over this damnable fear</h5>
<p>That’s right. I figure if you have to get over something it’s best to do it head on. So in 2004 I embarked on what I now term my “IN THE EYE OF THE STORM” period of my life.</p>
<p>It was quite figurative actually as I was also going through a horrible divorce and storms were brewing everywhere.</p>
<p>I paid my ‘lots of thousands of dollars’, took the Colgate Offshore Sailing School courses – this one was held in the BVI’s, (both beginner and intermediate courses &#8211; because why go at all if you can’t do it all at once?) (Did I mention I was &gt; Triple A?), and lo and behold I was down in the playground of the sailing world and learning to conquer my fear of the big bad blue.</p>
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<p>As luck would have it (I’m not that lucky) there was a horrible northerly that came down and for the first time in years, temps dropped to less than 60°F and the winds and seas were well over 20 knots – swear to ‘whatever you believe in’.</p>
<p><strong>I was petrified.</strong></p>
<p>I remember studying like a fiend to pass the course – did I mention I was &gt;Triple A? I had to get A’s (which I did) but when it came to getting on the boat I did so only through sheer force of will, and I immediately:</p>
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<li>Came down with bronchitis</li>
<li>Lost my voice</li>
<li>Got my period (which I had scheduled to NOT start during this timeframe)</li>
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<p>I have to admit, though, that even with the rough weather and complete terror I felt when the boat heeled slightly, the Colgate School of Sailing (BVI location) was an amazing learning center.</p>
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<p><strong>The instructors and fellow students were wonderful.</strong></p>
<p>The instructors were kind, with excellent credentials and, in fact, the instructor I had for the intermediate leg of the instruction was Mr. Julian Putley, solo world circumnavigator, writer, humorist and instructor extraordinaire, who was coincidentally the man that commissioned the design of a particular center cockpit cutter by Dudley Dix, that my husband and I eventually deemed the only boat worthy of our custom aluminum dream boat project.</p>
<p>So, here I am, in the playland of the ubersailing world and I’m sick as a dog, scared to death, dealing with my period and NOT enjoying this at all.</p>
<p><strong>However, there was a moment when things did change.</strong></p>
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<p>We sailed to Anegada Island (BVI’s)…  and it was stunning and beautiful and the weather calmed down and the sun was brilliant. The air became warm and the water sparkled like jewels and …ok, so you get the picture.</p>
<p><strong>The sailing started to feel amazing I became hooked…</strong> it didn’t hurt that we had a wonderful beach party that night filled with wine and champagne, making the life experience all the richer.</p>
<p><strong>I passed both the beginner and intermediate levels.</strong></p>
<p>When I returned to Canada, I was able to finally get my divorce <em>($90K for lawyers: he got the house, the cottage, the cars and the money – I got my life back and, looking back, would have paid a hell of a lot more if I had to…but that’s another story completely)</em>.</p>
<p>The storm abated, I moved to Vancouver and decided to take my advanced levels.</p>
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<p>Of course, the CYA doesn’t play nice with the US Sailing Association, so they didn’t recognize my credentials from the earlier courses I took. So I challenged the exams and took both the beginner and intermediate CYA and passed.</p>
<p>Now I was ready to take the advanced levels – off to Coopers Sailing School on Granville Island I did go, and<strong> signed up for the advanced/offshore certification course.</strong></p>
<p>Another salty dog entered my life by the name of Jim Lavers. What a great instructor and a very, very, very patient man. I was the only woman on the boat, with 4 men taking the course. I was not expected, and dare I say, not really wanted.</p>
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<p>I “hot bunked” (<strong><em>Now</em></strong> I know what this means) with the captain (of course!) and off I went circumnavigating Vancouver Island.</p>
<p>Please remember, I’m still afraid of water, but<strong> what I was learning by doing all of this is that I can CONTROL my fear if needed. </strong></p>
<p>Yes, control is a big thing for me, so if I can learn enough about sailing and how water can be viewed as a positive element of the sport, then I can control how I deal with water as a manageable quantity rather than the behemoth-deep, unexplainable, unmanageable, unfriendly, uninviting, mass of wetness (cold, dark and clammy!) that terrorized me.</p>
<p><strong>Guess what? I circumnavigated Vancouver Island!</strong></p>
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<p>We had some hairy times, and some wonderful days; saw amazing coastline and sea life. But for me, it was the people along my journey that became the winning prize at the end of the adventure. I sat my exams at UBCO as I could not muster the strength or courage to sit them during the trip. Did I mention I’m Triple A? Of course, another A.</p>
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<p>Now that I’ve become enamored of sailing and the wonders it can bring to one’s life, and have a beautiful boat to live on<em> (yes ON THE WATER, at Spruce Harbour Marina in one of the most beautiful cities in the world – Vancouver)</em>, I absolutely have to get on with overcoming my inability to stay submersed in the water for any length of time.</p>
<p>It’s also a matter of safety. <strong>I should absolutely be able to at least swim to get into a life raft if ever our boat starts sinking – which I think about a lot!</strong></p>
<p>I’d also like to show my son that his mother overcame her insane fear, and provide (maybe) an example that no matter how old one is, if a person desires something badly enough, they can get it.</p>
<h5 class="color-brown">I truly want to be able to swim and get over my fear of being in water.</h5>
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<p>My husband – a wonderful and supportive man who understands my need to overcome the problem – started investigating <strong>swimming lessons given by instructors who devote their time to persons who are truly afraid of water</strong>, and not just new to the sport.</p>
<p>In other words, a real shift in thought on how to approach a person’s fear and to help them along in their swimming goals, rather than the old fashioned method of teaching through drilling the student with pure rote skills and insanely practicing those skills- that never can be acquired successfully because the student is not responding to that style of instruction because they can’t get into the water and stay there and be comfortable in it.</p>
<p><strong>My husband was able to find a gem of an instructor called Peter.</strong></p>
<p>He himself did not learn to swim until adulthood and still hates water up his nose. However, when he goes into the water, it’s a joy to behold the way he moves with it. He’s incredible to watch – such beauty in motion and such delicate and relaxed movements. He makes it look so graceful and effortless….don’t you hate people like that?!</p>
<p><strong>The first thing that Peter managed to teach me was to find what he called my ‘safe position’.</strong></p>
<p><strong> </strong> He asked if I could swim at all. I told him the extent of my skills.</p>
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<li><em>I’m able to float on my back,</em></li>
<li><em>I’m able to do a dead man’s float (hopefully this will never happen for real)</em></li>
<li><em>I’m able to do a sort of crude back stroke</em></li>
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<p>He was impressed. He said, and I quote, “<em>I thought you said you couldn’t swim?</em>”</p>
<p>Ok – so now I’m thinking he’s not that great an instructor and this is another lesson in futility and more money down the drain. However, <strong>he went on to prove to me that if I could float on my back, then I could use that particular skill as the position to go to when I needed to feel ‘safe’.</strong></p>
<p>If I was able to get to the back float position in a somewhat relaxed state, then my body could use this position as the place to return to when other moments or positions became too frightening or overwhelming for me. It’s kind of funny to learn that after all these years my skill in the water was “laying on my back”!</p>
<p>However, that simple truth must have held some type of honest relief for me, because now when I become overwhelmed in the water, (you know the feeling….panic, then loss of breath, then more panic, then gasping for air, then sheer terror, then spluttering, then coughing) I immediately turn onto my back …NOT gracefully like Super Instructor Peter…but in my own flustered way.</p>
<p>And voilá, I am safe.</p>
<p><strong>The point? I am able to stay in the water now.</strong> What a brilliant idea he had and so dead simple.</p>
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<h5>One could argue that our species is not meant to swim.</h5>
<p>And in fact, I can attest to this statement.</p>
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<p>Swimming is totally counter intuitive and in my case, not at all graceful.</p>
<p>Swimming requires that we keep our head in the water and then turn it sideways until our nose surfaces above the water (not a natural motion) in order to breathe. Think about that for half a second. <strong> </strong></p>
<p><strong>Whales breathe out through their nose, WHICH IS ON TOP OF THEIR HEADS,</strong> and have a device built into their bodies (genetics is a wonderful thing) that can clamp their noses shut so that water doesn’t go up it.</p>
<p>Same for porpoises. Hence they swim well and can stay in the water forever.</p>
<p>Last I looked, I’m neither a whale nor a porpoise.</p></blockquote>
<h5 class="color-brown">I don&#8217;t know what happened</h5>
<p>However, on Sunday, January 31, 2010, I went into the pool at the YWCA in downtown Vancouver, as ordered by the doctor, for thrice weekly physio exercises to help heal from an accident sustained in 2009. I don’t know what happened.</p>
<p>I don’t know if  it was because I was so tired from the earlier exercises and therefore didn’t care so much, I don’t know if I just stopped thinking for a moment or if it was just the time for it to happen, but … <strong>I put some swim fins on, got into the pool and SWAM TO THE DEEP END AND BACK.</strong></p>
<p>Apparently, the grin on my face was so big that people wondered what was up, and starting asking me about it.</p>
<p>So I told them. “<em>This is the first time in my life that I swam into the deep end on my own.</em>”</p>
<h5 class="color-brown">So now I will continue down this path and keep working on my skills.</h5>
<p>Knowing me, I will take the hardest route. Knowing me, it will not come easy. Knowing me, I will have setbacks before another milestone is reached. Knowing me, I won’t give up until I accomplish my goal.</p>
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<h5>So what should I say to anyone that has true fear of deep dark blue water?</h5>
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<li>It’s valid</li>
<li>You can overcome it</li>
<li>You are not a whale nor a porpoise and therefore must understand that this is counterintuitive</li>
<li>Find classes (private or otherwise) with instructors who teach about overcoming the fear of water</li>
<li>Keep trying</li>
<li>Keep trying</li>
<li>Don’t give up</li>
<li>Be bloody minded</li>
<li>Stop listening to people that say, “What? It’s easy. Why can’t you swim?”</li>
<li>Have a great sense of humour….I do. You should see me in the water! It’s a riot.</li>
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<p>I’m going for a glass of wine tonight, but tomorrow, its swimming lesson time again. Only this time, I know I will live through it and I won’t be as frightened as usual. I might not look great doing it, but I feel incredible knowing how much I have overcome.</p>
<p>And maybe that’s the best lesson of all.</p>
<p>Laurie M. Clark, Tadpole<br />
<span class="boat_name">SV NAMO</span><br />
Vancouver, BC, Canada</p>
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<h5>About Laurie Clark</h5>
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<p>Laurie and her husband Ian, live aboard <span class="boat_name">NAMO</span> for the most part in Vancouver at Spruce Harbour Marina in the fabulous South False Creek area, but also enjoy spending time with their great kids in their home in Kelowna, in the Okanagan Valley.</p>
<p>Laurie Clark<strong> </strong>is a respected banking and investment sector specialist. She is the owner and founder of GITTI Inc. (<a href="http://www.gitti.ca">www.gitti.ca</a>) a Corporate Development Strategies firm.</p>
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<p>She and her husband, Ian, along with all their children spend their time sailing in their beautiful custom offshore cutter around the beautiful and scenic Vancouver and Gulf Islands whenever they can.</p>
<p>Laurie’s goal this year is to finish the year by swimming one lap around <span class="boat_name">NAMO</span>. The family’s goal is to leave the West one day soon for adventures unknown across the many and great seas.</p>
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<h6>Related articles (on this website)</h6>
<ul>
<li class="note"><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/resources.htm#LearningToSail">Learning to Sail</a> (resources and links)</li>
<li class="note"><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/category/features/how-we-learn/">How We Learn</a> (blog)</li>
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<blockquote><p><strong>What have you learned lately? </strong> Let us know. Email <a href="mailto:kathy@forcruisers.com">kathy@forcruisers.com</a> or leave a comment below.</p></blockquote>
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		<title>How answering a personal ad led me to become a skilled cruiser</title>
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<p>In December 1992 I answered one more personal ad in the “Columbus Monthly” magazine, a glossy trendy publication in Columbus, Ohio.  I responded by writing a note, as it was before Internet dating and instant gratification.  Don called me after receiving that note.</p>
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<p>In December 1992 I answered one more personal ad in the “Columbus Monthly” magazine, a glossy trendy publication in Columbus, Ohio.  I responded by writing a note, as it was before Internet dating and instant gratification.  Don called me after receiving that note.</p>
<h5>What I did not understand at first was that he was actually looking for a cruising partner.</h5>
<p>While on my first phone call with Don, I learned that people actually lived on boats.  What a novel idea!  It had never occurred to me.<span id="more-1629"></span></p>
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<p>I got to meet the pets of some Kuna kids in the San Blas Islands of Panama!</td>
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<p>Don’s life goal was to go cruising.  He tried to explain that concept to me, how two alone could sail to wonderful exotic places together.</p>
<p>Since I am a social sort of person, I was immediately concerned about being separated from [other people and] my friends. However, Don’s inspired answer, “<em>We will be in Paradise, with an extra bedroom&#8230;</em>” settled me down so that I could listen to the remainder of the sales pitch from him.</p>
<h5>Don was convinced that I would make a good cruiser.</h5>
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<p>I really enjoyed swimming the paso fino stallion Indy while in Bonaire</td>
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<p>I was a certified scuba diver, an avid horseback rider,  a sky diver, a water skier, a snow skier, and a lover of traveling.</p>
<p>He also quickly learned that I am frugal, and I love to try new things.  Cruising is an excellent venue for both, as I have learned.</p>
<p>Right off the bat, Don lent to me the book <span class="publication">Blown Away</span> by Herb Payson.  He writes with great humor about his family’s hard lessons and misadventures as new cruisers.  It is a fun read that leads you to believe that anyone can indeed cruise.</p>
<p>He also had me read <span class="publication">Lynn and Larry Pardey’s books</span> for a more serious look at the good and bad possibilities. I was hooked, but being a newbie to sailing I needed to get on track to cram sailing knowledge in my head.</p>
<h5>Don suggested that I take the beginning boating courses offered by the <a href="http://www.columbussailandpower.org/" target="_blank"><strong>United States Sail and Power Squadron in Columbus Ohio.</strong></a></h5>
<p>As a self-taught boater who was already distance sailing on the Great Lakes, Don did not feel it necessary to take these courses.  However, realizing that he would become my hands on teacher, he decided to take the courses with me to avoid confusing me later with contradictory practices and jargon. <img class="pic-left" title="United States Power Squadron logo" src="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/power-squadron-logo.jpg" alt="United States Power Squadron logo" width="115" height="115" /></p>
<p>Believe it or not, at the time we joined the <span class="organization">Columbus Squadron</span> they were the largest Sail and Power Squadron in the USA, vying for that distinction with the Fort Lauderdale, Florida Squadron.  That is pretty amazing since Columbus is land locked, with the nearest big water being Lake Erie almost three hours north of the city.  But, lucky for us, our Squadron was blessed with many excellent experienced blue water boaters as instructors.</p>
<p>We ended up taking almost all of their courses together.  <em>Basic boating</em>, <em>Seamanship</em>, <em>Piloting</em>, <em>Advanced Piloting</em>, <em>Sailing,</em> <em>Weather</em> (very hard but excellent), <em>Engine Maintenance</em>, <em>Marine Electronics</em>, and began but did not finish, <em>Junior Navigation</em> (offshore and celestial).</p>
<p>I highly recommend those courses, as they can be done in the winter when you can’t sail in many parts of the U.S. and they are very reasonably priced. You may not meet a lot of cruising sailors in the Sail and Power Squadron, but you can make lots of friends who will encourage you.</p>
<p>For Christmas 1993, Don gave me training with a female captain, on “our” boat.</p>
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<p>SOUTHERN CROSS sailing in the British Virgin Islands</td>
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<h5>Patty Moore from <a href="http://www.seasenseboating.com/"><strong>Sea Sense</strong></a>, the sailing school for women, came and stayed with us on SOUTHERN CROSS for two days to train me “hands on” on our boat.</h5>
<p>Many times, learning from your significant other can be difficult; think back to trying to learn how to parallel park from your parents, not a pretty sight that is for sure.</p>
<p>Learning to sail from your significant other can be the same,  but worse, because the experienced partner may not have the patience to share the tasks that the learner needs to practice.</p>
<p>Take my advice and try to learn basic boat handling one on one from someone who is trained to teach, and preferably on your own boat.  This I highly recommend.</p>
<p>Don was allowed on the boat for half of one day while we practiced a man-over-board drill.  Once he was off the boat, Patty showed me how to pivot the boat and how to dock, among other things.</p>
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<h5>Prior to Patty I had NEVER docked, ever. Now I am the primary pilot and Don is the line handler.</h5>
<p>Docking is still a bit of a nervous time for me, but I continue to practice so much that Don complains that he will forget if I do not let him dock once in awhile. Actually, neither one of us get to dock much as we anchor out most of the time.</p>
<h5>While we were both still working hard to accumulate a cruising kitty we tried to take three-week vacations.</h5>
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<td class="caption" style="text-align: center;"><img title="We are out exploring in the Bahamas." src="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/D-Bahamas.jpg" alt="We are out exploring in the Bahamas." width="244" height="184" /> We are out exploring in the Bahamas.</td>
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<td class="caption" style="text-align: center;"><img title="The first seahorse I found. I was snorkeling in the Bahamas." src="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/D--Bahamian-seahorse.jpg" alt="The first seahorse I found. I was snorkeling in the Bahamas." width="240" height="240" /> The first seahorse I found. I was snorkeling in the Bahamas.</td>
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<p>Since the boat was located in Lake Erie we would head north to Lake Huron, the North Channel, North Georgian Bay or perhaps Lake Michigan, usually covering about a thousand miles.</p>
<p>We sailed one week to get there, a week to have fun and then a week to get back.  This helped to give me an idea of what the cruising life might be like.  No, it is really not live aboard cruising, but it was the best facsimile we could do.</p>
<p>Those trips and a few bare boat charters in the Caribbean or the Bahamas in the winter really kept us focused on our goal.</p>
<p>There needs to be Joy in your work and plans. <strong> </strong></p>
<p><strong>For me, not being afraid to get my hands dirty and a willingness to learn new and different things was a great asset to learning to cruise.</strong></p>
<h5>I will admit I feel I am lucky in the partner I have.</h5>
<p>Don is an excellent teacher, as he taught coal miners about electricity, and he has a wonderfully calm and cool personality.  He rarely gets upset and does not yell.  So I am indeed blessed.</p>
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<h5>About Dierdre Atkinson Wogaman</h5>
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<p><em>Dierdre  sails with her husband Don Wogaman aboard SOUTHERN CROSS, their 1974 Dickerson 41 ketch. </em><em>Designed by Ernie Tucker of Oxford, MD near the Dickerson plant this is the very first Dickerson 41 and was the last wooden boat Dickerson built.</em></p>
<p><em>Don bought the boat from her original owners, Neville and Louise Lewis who sailed her around the world with their son Chris aboard from 1975 to 1979.  They sold SOUTHERN CROSS in 1984 to Don and then he moved her from the Chesapeake Bay to the Great Lakes.</em> <em> </em></p>
<p><em>Retiring and selling out of house and horse, Dierdre and Don moved to northern Ohio, Port Clinton to be exact, to be near the boat to finish prepping for cruising.  In July 2002 they moved aboard and actually dropped the dock lines on October 17, 2002 to head east and then south.   It was not quite quick enough as they ran into some very cold temperatures along the way going through the Erie Canal.</em></p>
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<p><em>Not straying too far from Ohio, due to Don’s elderly parents’ failing health, kept them in the Chesapeake Bay that first winter.  Subsequent years they sailed the East Coast from as far north as Cutler Maine and as far south as the Dry Tortugas and around Florida’s west coast up to Clearwater, following the seasons. </em></p>
<p><em>By 2006 it was time to venture further a field to the Bahamas, and then later to the Caribbean.</em> <em>One winter in the Bahamas and over two years in the eastern and western Caribbean finally made them feel like they were really cruising. </em></p>
<p><em>It has been a glorious time and thoroughly enjoyed, and after 7 years, 22,000 miles and countless new friendships they still feel like they are just getting started.</em> <em> </em></p>
<p><em>Now they are tied to a dock in Oriental, North Carolina’s sailing capitol, while remodeling the interior of the boat to prepare for future adventures.  If you are in the area be sure and give them a shout.</em> <em><a href="mailto:dndonwogs@gmail.com">dndonwogs@gmail.com</a></em></p>
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<h6>Read also on this website</h6>
<ul>
<li class="note"><em><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/admirals-angle/2006/11/3-getting-started/" target="_blank">Getting Started</a> (Admiral’s Angle column #3)<br />
</em>Examples of how (and when) some experienced cruisers got started show you don’t have to be a life-long sailor to take off cruising.</li>
<li class="note"><em><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/2009/08/why-kim-hess-got-captains-license/" target="_blank">Why Kim Hess Got her Captain’s License</a></em></li>
<li class="note"><em><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/2009/09/debbie-leisure-learns-to-sail-her-boat-single-handed/" target="_blank">Debbie Leisure learns to sail her boat single-handed.</a></em></li>
<li class="note"><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/admirals-angle/2006/12/4-peace-of-mind-emergency-skills" target="_blank">Peace of Mind—Emergency Skills</a> <em>(Admiral&#8217;s Angle column #4)<br />
</em>Basic boating skills every woman who boards a cruising boat should know how to do.</li>
</ul>
<h6>More information (external links)</h6>
<ul>
<li class="note"><em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0924486953?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=wacblog1-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0924486953" target="_blank">Blown Away</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=wacblog1-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0924486953" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> by Herb Payson</em></li>
<li class="note"><em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&amp;location=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2Fgp%2Fentity%2FLin-Pardey%2FB001HCZ0PU%3Fie%3DUTF8%26ref_%3Dsr%5Fntt%5Fsrch%5Flnk%5F1%26qid%3D1266611512%26sr%3D8-1&amp;tag=wacblog1-20&amp;linkCode=ur2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957" target="_blank">Larry and Lin Pardey&#8217;s books</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="https://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=wacblog1-20&amp;l=ur2&amp;o=1" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /></em></li>
<li class="note"><em><a href="http://www.usps.org/" target="_blank">United States Power Squadron</a></em></li>
<li class="note"><em><a href="http://www.seasenseboating.com/" target="_blank">Seasense Boating School</a>: The Women’s Sailing and Powerboating School</em></li>
<li class="note"><em><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/resources.htm#LearningToSail" target="_blank">Learning to Sail Resources</a> (on this website)</em></li>
</ul>
<blockquote style="text-align: center;"><p><strong>How did YOU learn your sailing/cruising skills?</strong><br />
Let us know. Email <a href="mailto:kathy@forcruisers.com">kathy@forcruisers.com</a> or leave a comment below.</p></blockquote>
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		<title>Debbie Leisure learns to sail her boat single-handed.</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Sep 2009 20:40:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Debbie Leisure]]></dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I learned to sail with my husband.

We took lessons together, chartered boats together, bought our first boat together, and then our next boat—the one in which to go cruising.

I learned my “things” and he learned his.  We tried to cross-train, and sometimes it worked.

It wasn’t until he died suddenly, a couple ...<a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/2009/09/debbie-leisure-learns-to-sail-her-boat-single-handed/"><strong>Read more</strong></a>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/DSCN0215.jpg"><img style="display: inline; margin: 0px 0px 0px 10px; border-width: 0px;" title="Debbie Leisure" src="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/DSCN0215_thumb.jpg" border="0" alt="Debbie Leisure" width="260" height="204" align="right" /></a> I learned to sail with my husband.</p>
<p>We took lessons together, chartered boats together, bought our first boat together, and then our next boat—the one in which to go cruising.</p>
<p>I learned my “things” and he learned his.  We tried to cross-train, and sometimes it worked.</p>
<h5>It wasn’t until he died suddenly, a couple years into our cruise to the Caribbean, that I suddenly realized the many things I didn’t know how to do.</h5>
<p><span id="more-586"></span><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/DSCN26661.jpg"><img style="display: inline; margin: 0px 0px 0px 10px; border-width: 0px;" title="I had never changed the oil or bled the fuel lines without supervision." src="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/DSCN2666_thumb1.jpg" border="0" alt="I had never changed the oil or bled the fuel lines without supervision." width="220" height="175" align="right" /></a>Several very important things.</p>
<p>I had never picked up a mooring single-handed, never sailed alone, never changed the oil or bled the fuel lines without supervision, and very importantly, I had never, no never, docked the boat.</p>
<p>I made the decision to keep the boat and single-hand, but I have to admit, did not take any real steps to make that a reality.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/DSCN01423.jpg"><img style="display: inline; margin: 0px 0px 0px 10px; border-width: 0px;" title="I was very good at sitting on the boat, attached to a mooring, in Carriacou, Grenada." src="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/DSCN0142_thumb3.jpg" border="0" alt="I was very good at sitting on the boat, attached to a mooring, in Carriacou, Grenada." width="220" height="190" align="right" /></a>I was very good at sitting on the boat, attached to a mooring, in Carriacou, Grenada.</p>
<p>I was okay at sailing with friends on board to crew for me.</p>
<p>But most of the skills that I was not sure that I had and needed, I had to be FORCED to learn.</p>
<h5>A step</h5>
<p>The first time I went sailing alone, I was supposed to be in the company of two or three other boats.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/DSCN01782.jpg"><img style="display: inline; margin: 0px 10px 0px 0px; border-width: 0px;" title="Sunset at Union Island in the Grenadines" src="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/DSCN0178_thumb2.jpg" border="0" alt="Sunset at Union Island in the Grenadines" width="220" height="187" align="left" /></a>I left earlier on the sail to Union Island, as I was the slowest boat and they would be right behind me. However, they were all delayed in their departure, and I was anchored for hours before anyone else arrived.</p>
<p>I had completed my first sail, with no major problems; I had anchored alone with no advice or assistance.</p>
<p>I would not have planned it that way, but it turned out well and gave me confidence.</p>
<h5>Another step</h5>
<p>Upon leaving the dock one day after taking on water, a friend came on board to assist me in picking up the mooring again.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/DSCN26571.jpg"><img style="display: inline; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; border-width: 0px;" src="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/Debbie-Learning.jpg" border="0" alt="" width="220" height="146" align="right" /></a>However, after getting underway, he informed that I was never going to learn to pick up the mooring alone if everyone kept helping me. So being the good friend that he was, he was going “to do nothing” while I did it alone.  Of course, he was right. He offered a little advice and sat back to watch.</p>
<p>I picked up the mooring without his assistance, gained confidence and never asked anyone again to help me.</p>
<p>Again, I was “forced” into learning a skill and attempting a maneuver I was uncomfortable with, and came away feeling much better about my abilities.</p>
<h5>And another step</h5>
<p><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/debbie-docking-1.jpg"><img style="display: inline; margin: 0px 0px 0px 10px; border-width: 0px;" title="I firmly believed that I could not dock the boat, but Nolan COULD walk on water" src="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/debbie-docking-1.jpg" border="0" alt="I firmly believed that I could not dock the boat, but Nolan COULD walk on water" width="220" height="152" align="right" /></a>It was about this same time, that Nolan, from the haul-out yard, came out one day in his dinghy to advise me that he was ready to install my new electric windlass if I would just move the boat to the dock.</p>
<p>As he started to motor away, I called him back and explained to him that I did not dock the boat alone, had never docked the boat alone, and he must come onboard to assist me.</p>
<p>Even with assistance, I was not confident in my ability to dock the boat, as I had never docked the boat when my husband was alive and had only docked it a few times since then with experienced people onboard telling me exactly what to do.</p>
<p>However, Nolan had other ideas.  He patiently explained that he was sure that I could dock the boat. He said he would go wait on the dock for me and if I needed assistance, he would “walk on water” to come help me. Since I have great faith in Nolan’s abilities (I firmly believed that I could not dock the boat, but Nolan COULD walk on water), I agreed to do it his way.</p>
<p>I approached the dock with trepidation, but there stood Nolan along with three others from the haul-out yard to help me. Of course, just as Nolan had said, I docked with no problems.</p>
<p>Again, I was forced to learn and acknowledge my abilities that I didn’t even know that I had.</p>
<h5><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/debbie-docking-2.jpg"><img style="display: inline; margin: 0px 0px 0px 10px; border-width: 0px;" title="I seem to learn best the hard way" src="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/debbie-docking-2.jpg" border="0" alt="I seem to learn best the hard way" width="220" height="160" align="right" /></a>It seems most of my learning has been that way.</h5>
<p>Forced to do what has to be done, when it must be done.  I seem to learn best the hard way.</p>
<p>But with the help of many friends, sailors, workers and strangers, I continue to learn.</p>
<h5>Heading North</h5>
<p><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/DSCN05575.jpg"><img style="display: inline; margin: 0px 10px 0px 0px; border-width: 0px;" title="Heading North" src="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/DSCN0557_thumb5.jpg" border="0" alt="Heading North" width="179" height="164" align="left" /></a>I left Carriacou, Grenada, in January 2007, having made the decision that it was time for <span class="boat_name">Illusions</span> and I to return to the States.</p>
<p>I had a wonderful buddy boat to travel with, a boat as slow as I was. It took me six months to sail from Carriacou to Puerto Rico.  Some of the stops were just for fun; many were for working on the boat. Either working on things myself, or finding professionals along the way.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/DSCN26633.jpg"><img style="display: inline; margin: 0px 10px 0px 0px; border-width: 0px;" title=" I had engine problems, blew out a sail, broke a dinghy davit, and on my one overnight sail the autopilot failed." src="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/DSCN2663_thumb3.jpg" border="0" alt=" I had engine problems, blew out a sail, broke a dinghy davit, and on my one overnight sail the autopilot failed." width="180" height="152" align="left" /></a> I had engine problems, blew out a sail, broke a dinghy davit, and on my one overnight sail the autopilot failed.</p>
<p>All these things happened under way and had to be dealt with alone until I could reach the next island and assistance.</p>
<p>I learned patience if nothing else.</p>
<p>I stayed in Puerto Rico a year, then continued on to the U.S. I had a friend that crewed for me for the Puerto Rico to Charleston, SC part of the trip. I did my longest passages to date, only making about four stops between Old San Juan and Charleston.</p>
<h5>Next Steps</h5>
<p>I plan this winter to sail to the Bahamas for the winter.</p>
<p>I try not to think about the things I’ll be forced to learn along the way, but the cruising lifestyle thus far has made it all worthwhile.</p>
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<h6>About Debbie</h6>
<p><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/DSCN0965.jpg"><img style="display: inline; margin: 0px 0px 0px 10px; border-width: 0px;" title="Illusions - my 29' Island Packet - in Culebra" src="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/DSCN0965_thumb.jpg" border="0" alt="Illusions - my 29' Island Packet - in Culebra" width="229" height="184" align="right" /></a> Debbie Leisure sails her 29&#8242; Island Packet, <span class="boat_name">Illusions</span> single-handed. Originally from Missouri, she sailed the Eastern Caribbean for five years. Recently, Oriental NC has been her home base, but she plans to sail to the Bahamas this winter.</p>
<p>Carriacou holds a special place in Debbie’s heart. She flew back this August for the annual <a href="http://www.carriacouregatta.com/" target="_blank">Carriacou Regatta</a>, saw old friends and had a great time racing.</p>
<p>Debbie helped out at last year’s <a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/2009/08/join-women-and-cruising-annapolis-boat-show/" target="_blank">Women and Cruising Seminar</a> at the Annapolis Boat Show. She shared her experience when women asked about what you need to know in case something happens to your husband/partner. Debbie, along with several other Women and Cruising contributors, hopes to attend <a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/2009/08/join-women-and-cruising-annapolis-boat-show/" target="_blank">this year</a> as well!</p></blockquote>
<h6>Related articles (on this website)</h6>
<ul>
<li class="note"><em><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/admirals-angle/2008/11/27-single-women-sailing-part-1/">Single Women Sailing – Part 1</a>: </em>Ways to get into sailing when you are single <em>(Admiral&#8217;s Angle column #27)</em></li>
<li class="note"><em><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/admirals-angle/2008/12/28-single-women-sailing-part-2/">Single Women Sailing – Part 2</a>: </em>Perspectives on owning and operating your own boat <em>(Admiral&#8217;s Angle column #28)</em></li>
<li class="note"><em><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/about-cruising.htm#DebbieLeisure" target="_blank">What Debbie Leisure likes most about cruising</a></em></li>
<li class="note"><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/admirals-angle/2008/01/17-the-need-to-know/">The Need to Know</a>: Sheri Schneider is on her own in the Pacific after her husband is evacuated (Admiral’s Angle column #17)</li>
<li class="note"><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/admirals-angle/2007/03/7-doubt-and-the-thrill-zone/" target="_blank">Doubt and the Thrill Zone</a>: Self-doubt doesn’t rule you out!  Anxieties are not a signal to stop but to proceed more slowly.  We each learn at different rates.<em>(Admiral’s Angle column #7)</em></li>
</ul>
<blockquote>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>How did you learn your sailing/cruising skills?</strong><br />
Let us know. Email <a href="mailto:kathy@forcruisers.com">kathy@forcruisers.com</a> or leave a comment below.</p>
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		<title>Why Kim Hess got her captain&#8217;s license</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Aug 2009 20:41:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Kim Hess]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[How We Learn]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Learn to sail]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am always being asked what prompted me to get my Captains license or more correctly my Merchant Marine Officers license.

I can’t honestly say when the seed was actually planted or why, but as soon as it was, it began to grow and grow fast. ...<a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/2009/08/why-kim-hess-got-captains-license/"><strong>Read more</strong></a>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/Singlehanding_ASA_Course.jpg"><img style="display: inline; margin: 0px 0px 0px 10px; border-width: 0px;" title="Kim Hess" src="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/Singlehanding_ASA_Course_thumb.jpg" border="0" alt="Kim Hess" width="260" height="210" align="right" /></a> I am always being asked what prompted me to get my Captains license or more correctly my Merchant Marine Officers license.</p>
<p>I can’t honestly say when the seed was actually planted or why, but as soon as it was, it began to grow and grow fast. <span id="more-419"></span></p>
<p>I mentioned the idea to a friend of mine, and he encouraged me to do it sooner than later. Within the next month, I had signed up and began <span class="organization"><a href="http://www.seaschool.com/" target="_blank">Sea School</a>.</span> <a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/IYBTcoverjpeg1.jpg"><img style="display: inline; margin: 0px 0px 0px 10px; border-width: 0px;" title="It's Your Boat Too by Suzanne Giesemann" src="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/IYBTcoverjpeg_thumb1.jpg" border="0" alt="It's Your Boat Too by Suzanne Giesemann" width="97" height="144" align="right" /></a></p>
<p>I do know that a couple of years ago shortly after meeting and having an amazing connection with <a title="Suzanne Giesemann's sailing website" href="http://www.libertysails.com/" target="_blank">Suzanne Giesemann</a>, I read her book <span class="publication"><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0939837692?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=wacblog1-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=0939837692">It&#8217;s Your Boat Too</a></span>.  This book changed the way I saw my role on a boat. It gave me the confidence to take the test (oral and practical) to check out as a skipper at<span class="organization"> <a href="http://www.shakealegmiami.org/" target="_blank">Shake-A-Leg Miami</a></span> where I had been sailing as an AB (able body) for two years.</p>
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<td width="174" valign="top"><span class="caption" style="color: #ff00ff;">Kim and the Shake-a-Leg Pirate Girl Crew.</span></td>
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<td width="240" valign="top"><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/Pirate_GIrls_tatoos_pizza3.jpg"><img style="display: inline; margin: 0px 0px 5px; border-width: 0px;" title="Shake-A-Leg's Pirate Girl crew eat pizza and show off their tatoos" src="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/Pirate_GIrls_tatoos_pizza_thumb3.jpg" border="0" alt="Shake-A-Leg's Pirate Girl crew eat pizza and show off their tatoos" width="260" height="216" /></a></td>
<td width="174" valign="top"><span class="caption" style="color: #ff00ff;">The Pirate Girl Crew share pizza and show off their tattoos after a day on the water.</span></td>
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<p>I initially saw<span class="organization"> <a href="http://www.seaschool.com/" target="_blank">Sea School</a></span> and the ensuing test as an opportunity to once again up my confidence level. I had plans to cruise whether it be with a partner or by myself, and having very little experience as a skipper (although I am, if I may say so myself, a mighty fine crew), and only having the opportunity at the time to skipper the twenty something Freedoms at <span class="organization">Shake</span>, I felt by acquiring the intellectual knowledge, I would then be able to transfer that into practical knowledge when the time came. <a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/Sea_School_Class.jpg"><img style="display: inline; margin: 0px 10px 0px 0px; border-width: 0px;" title="Kim and her Sea School class" src="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/Sea_School_Class_thumb.jpg" border="0" alt="Kim and her Sea School class" width="260" height="253" align="left" /></a></p>
<p>For me, the confidence came in realizing how much I already knew, with the most challenging part about the whole process being the paperwork preparation for the Coast Guard. Trust me, if there is even the most remote possibility that you may decide to do this, start right now logging your hours on every single vessel you are on. For those of you that are now cruising or have been, this will be easy. For me, I had to document sea time over the last 20 years of sailing!</p>
<p>Getting my Captains license was definitely a good thing for me, however, unless you have a desire to use it for professional reasons, I highly recommend <span class="organization">ASA</span>’s (<a href="http://www.american-sailing.com/" target="_blank">American Sailing Association</a>) certifications. <a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/ASA_Course.jpg"><img style="display: inline; margin: 0px 10px 0px 0px; border-width: 0px;" title="ASA Sailing course" src="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/ASA_Course_thumb.jpg" border="0" alt="ASA Sailing course" width="260" height="200" align="left" /></a> The information is the same; with an opportunity to apply the information in a practical setting (and be tested on it) is presented. I am a true believer in experiential learning, which is something the Captains license testing doesn’t offer.</p>
<p>Today, I am actively looking for my boat, with hopes to being a live aboard before years end and with my Captains license, I am excited about starting a charter company and getting my<span class="organization"> <a class="organization" href="http://www.american-sailing.com/" target="_blank">ASA</a> </span>instructors certifications so I can share this passion with others.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/YO_front_cover.jpg"><img style="display: inline; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; border-width: 0px;" title="YO_front_cover" src="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/YO_front_cover_thumb.jpg" border="0" alt="YO_front_cover" width="172" height="125" align="right" /></a></p>
<h6>About Kim</h6>
<p><span class="note">Kim Hess is a sailor, a captain!, a yoga instructor and the author of <a class="publication" title="Yoga Onboard: a guide for cruisers and live aboards" href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0979204003?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=womeandcrui-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0979204003" target="_blank">Yoga Onboard</a>, a practical guide to adapting traditional yoga postures or asana to your vessel. It’s available as a book and DVD.</span></p>
<h6>More info</h6>
<ul>
<li class="note">Visit Kim Hess’s website, <a class="publication" href="http://www.tropicyoga.com/" target="_blank">Tropic Yoga</a> or check <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0979204003?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=wacblog1-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=0979204003">Yoga Onboard: a guide for cruisers and live aboards</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=wacblog1-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0979204003" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> at Amazon.com.</li>
<li class="note">Look for sailing classes and certifications at the <a class="organization" href="http://www.american-sailing.com/" target="_blank">American Sailing Association</a>.</li>
<li class="note">Volunteer with <a class="organization" href="http://www.shakealegmiami.org/" target="_blank">Shake-A-Leg Miami</a>.</li>
<li class="note">Visit Suzanne Giesemann’s website, <a class="publication" title="Suzanne Giesemann's sailing website" href="http://www.libertysails.com/" target="_blank">Liberty Sails</a> or check <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0939837692?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=wacblog1-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=0939837692">It&#8217;s Your Boat Too</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=wacblog1-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0939837692" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> at Amazon.com.</li>
<li class="note">Check out getting your captain’s license through <a class="organization" href="http://www.seaschool.com/" target="_blank">Sea School</a>.</li>
<li class="note">Consult the <a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/resources.htm#LearningToSail" target="_blank">Learning to Sail Resources</a> page (on this website)</li>
</ul>
<h6>Related articles (on this website)</h6>
<ul>
<li class="note"><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/2010/06/kim-hess-moves-aboard-her-first-boat/" target="_blank">Kim Hess moves aboard her first boat</a></li>
<li class="note"><em><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/admirals-angle/2006/11/3-getting-started/">Getting Started</a> (Admiral’s Angle column #3)</em></li>
<li class="note"><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/2010/02/how-d-wogaman-became-a-skilled-cruiser/" target="_blank">How answering a personal ad led me to become a skilled cruiser </a></li>
<li class="note"><em><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/2009/09/debbie-leisure-learns-to-sail-her-boat-single-handed/">Debbie Leisure learns to sail her boat single-handed.</a></em></li>
</ul>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>How did you learn your sailing/cruising skills?</strong><br />
Let us know. Email <a href="mailto:kathy@forcruisers.com">kathy@forcruisers.com</a> or leave a comment below.</p>
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