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		<title>First-time voyagers — What did they worry about that never happened? (Part 2)</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Lin Pardey  interviews 11 cruising couples fresh from their first major crossing - and finds out what they worried about and what they learned.  We have divided this article in 2 parts. Part 1 describes worries about bad weather and gear failures. Here, in part 2, Lin Pardey writes about other common worries as well as suggestions for those preparing to set ...<a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/2011/03/first-time-voyagers-%e2%80%94-what-did-they-worry-about-that-never-happened-part-2/"><strong>Read more</strong></a>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>Lin Pardey  interviews 11 cruising couples fresh from their first major crossing &#8211; and finds out what they worried about and what they learned.  We are publishing this chapter from Lin&#8217;s book “<strong>Capable Cruiser</strong>” in 2 parts. <a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/2011/03/first-time-voyagers-%E2%80%94-what-did-they-worry-about-that-never-happened-part-1/">Part 1 describes worries about bad weather and gear failures. </a>Here, in part 2, Lin Pardey writes about other common worries as well as suggestions for those preparing to set sail.</em></p>
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<h4><em>Predeparture worries (cont.)</em></h4>
<h5 class="color-beige-dark"><em>Handling medical issues</em></h5>
<p>• Jack and Marcia Spiess had owned their 44-foot cutter<span class="boat_name"> Tracen J</span> for four years before they set sail. They had been cruising off and on since 1988, but this was their first foray across oceans.</p>
<p>“<em>Handling medical issues, heart attack, fractures, and major injuries. That is what concerned me,</em>” said Marcia. But Marcia and her crew, like all of those with whom we spoke, had not had any serious medical troubles.</p>
<p>None had heard of any other voyagers mentioning problems other than two cases of tropical infections caused by cuts that were not treated properly.<span id="more-4372"></span></p>
<p>• Marilyn Middleton, who cruises with her husband, Glen, and son, Jaryd, on <span class="boat_name">Tin Soldier</span>, a 50-foot steel boat, said health problems at sea had been her worry, too.</p>
<p><span class="boat_name"><em><em>Tin Soldier</em></em></span>’s medical supplies were rarely used until they reached Neiafu in the Vava’u Islands of Tonga, where Glen decided to join friends on a racing boat for one of the Friday night races organized by a local restaurant owner.</p>
<p>During the race, the boat gybed and the traveler block, which runs on a track across the middle of the cockpit, hit Glen, throwing him against a winch. A broken nose, blackened eyes, and several stitches were much in evidence as we all discussed how much safer ocean voyaging seems to be than living on shore or racing under sail.</p>
<h5 class="color-beige-dark"><em><em>Seasickness</em></em></h5>
<p>• Linda Levy, with her partner Michael Gilbert, left from Florida on board <span class="boat_name">B’Sheret</span>, a 37-foot Najad sloop they bought at the Annapolis Boat Show. Linda listed seasickness right after nasty weather and pirates as a worry that was now relegated to a more comfortable place in her mind. “<em>I was lucky,</em>” Linda said. “<em>I heard all the horror stories but I never got further than anxiety nausea.</em>”</p>
<p>• Interestingly, when I asked others about seasickness, about 60 percent of the interviewees had found they either felt fine or suffered only for a few hours during the first day or two of a passage. The other 40 percent (me included) had found ways to control or cope with seasickness.</p>
<p>Although we met several people in Apia and Tonga who were planning to end their cruises sooner than planned, not one of them said it was because of seasickness.</p>
<h5 class="color-beige-dark"><em><em>Running out of food</em></em></h5>
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<p>• The crew of both <span class="boat_name">Tracen J</span> and <span class="boat_name">Argonaut </span>listed “running out of food” as something they worried about before they set off.</p>
<p>• But when I look over the answers to the next question we asked, “<em>What did you put on board that was not used?</em>” I realize that this was an almost universal concern. Many lists included comments about carrying too much basic food.</p>
<p>Marcia Spiess stated, “<em>I overprovisioned. All of it took up too much needed space and we ended up giving much of it away. We found that basics, such as flour, rice, etc., were usually available, even in the smallest island shops. Same with meats, fruits, and vegetables. Maybe they were not what we were used to, but it was fun to enjoy the local items.</em>”</p>
<p>• On the other hand, two couples wished they had carried more “comfort foods”—things that would be easy to grab for a snack, specialty items to make real at-home-feeling meals, favorite cookies or dried fruits for nibbling on night watches. These definitely are hard to find or very expensive once you sail far from home.</p>
<p>• Linda Levy from <span class="boat_name">B’Sheret</span> said, “<em>Yes, we overprovisioned, but even without a freezer we were able to eat quick meals from a can and have hot soup all the way to New Zealand. That made me happy when the seas were not happy and all I had to do was open a can, throw it in a pot, heat and eat.</em>”</p>
<h4><em><em>Most favored gear on board</em></em></h4>
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<li>Eight out of 10 couples listed their windvane self-steering as the “most favored gear on board.”</li>
<li>The other two listed their autopilots.</li>
<li>Six listed their watermaker.</li>
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<p>When there was any discussion between husband and wife as to whether the self-steering gear or the watermaker was most important, the answer seemed to split clearly along gender lines, with women strongly in favor of the watermaker.</p>
<h4><em><em>Best memory</em></em></h4>
<p>The most enjoyable part of each interview was asking, “<em>What is your very best memory so far?</em>” The answers proved to us that even though there are a lot more folks out here than when we set off 42 years ago, cruising is still a grand adventure.</p>
<p>• Tom Collins and Colleen Wilson, who sailed on 8-ton <span class="boat_name">Mokisha</span>, a handsome 1980s-style S&amp;S 38 built by Catalina Yachts (see fig. 18.1), said, “<em>Nothing compared with the awe of being out at sea, far from land, on a starry night.</em>”</p>
<p>• Linda and Steve on Linda repeated this sentiment, adding, “<em>Catching mahimahi! And we loved Penrhyn Island. It was just about a hundred miles off the normal route, yet we were the only cruisers there and we were shown a wonderful time by the island folks.</em>”</p>
<p>• The Middleton family spoke of spending time at one of the isolated atolls of the Tuamotus and staying with a Polynesian family for a week “<em>There were only two families on the atoll, yet there was a church. The three of us made the Sunday congregation 30 percent larger than normal.</em>”</p>
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<td valign="top"><img style="margin-right: 10px; display: block; border-width: 0px;" title="Marilyn and Glenn Middleton with their son Jared wanted to get to know more about the real Tonga. They invited a woman who befriended them at the market place to come out for a Sunday sail. Big Mary arrived with 8 children plus husband. (Marilyn and Jared are wearing the orange T shirts in this photo). This was the beginning of an amazing friendship." src="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/LinPardey-FirstTimeVoyager5.jpg" alt="Marilyn and Glenn Middleton with their son Jared wanted to get to know more about the real Tonga. They invited a woman who befriended them at the market place to come out for a Sunday sail. Big Mary arrived with 8 children plus husband. (Marilyn and Jared are wearing the orange T shirts in this photo). This was the beginning of an amazing friendship." width="450" height="260" /></td>
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<td class="caption" style="text-align: center;" valign="top">Marilyn and Glenn Middleton with their son Jared wanted to get to know more about the real Tonga. They invited a woman who befriended them at the market place to come out for a Sunday sail. Big Mary arrived with 8 children plus husband. (Marilyn and Jared are wearing the orange T shirts in this photo). This was the beginning of an amazing friendship.</td>
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<p>• “<em>The Pacific Arts Festival,</em>” stated Jack and Marcia Spiess, “<em>It was in American Samoa—only happens once every four years and 27 island nations sent their dancers and singers for 10 days of performances.</em>”</p>
<p>•  Several others said, “<em>Beautiful anchorages,</em>” mentioning places as diverse as Hiva Oa in the Marquesas, Niuatoputapu in Tonga, and the eastern side of Bora Bora. “<em>Suwarrow Atoll</em>,” said Michael Gilbert. “<em>It was described as magical by everyone we’ve spoken with and we all believe that the most magic was due to the Cooks Island caretaker and his family who live there.</em>”</p>
<h4><em><em>The boats they chose to cruise</em></em></h4>
<p>The boats in which these 10 interviewees chose to cruise ranged from 28 feet in length to 50 feet on deck. All but two had been bought secondhand; two were more than 30 years old. The purchase prices listed ranged from $35,000 to $400,000.</p>
<p>But in spite of their divergent boat choices and budgets, these folks all had one financial reality in common: The cost to upgrade and outfit the boat once they decided to go cruising ran an additional 25 to 35 percent of the purchase price of the boat.</p>
<h4><em><em>Other advice for those waiting to set sail</em></em></h4>
<p>What other advice did these cruisers add to their questionnaires for those dreaming of setting off across oceans? Here’s the list:</p>
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<li>Do it sooner rather than later.</li>
<li>Quit talking and get out here!</li>
<li>Know your boat, test your gear.</li>
<li>Buy the best dinghy you can afford.</li>
<li>Have confidence in your boat.</li>
<li>Don’t overload your boat or you will feel cramped and uncomfortable.</li>
<li>Weather will become your life; study and learn about it.</li>
<li>Once you have prepared thoroughly, relax and enjoy it all.</li>
<li>Keep a realistic perspective on being out here—far from family, far from easily available materials, equipment, and skilled labor.</li>
<li>Be mentally prepared for being at sea a long time. “It was better than I thought it would be,” said one cruiser.</li>
<li>Slow down!</li>
<li>Learn a few words of the local language. Even saying hello, thank you, and good-bye can open new worlds to you.</li>
<li>Be wary of the herd mentality. Remember that it’s your dream, your itinerary, and ultimately your decision.</li>
<li>Get away from other yachties so you experience the local culture.</li>
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<h5 class="color-beige-dark">The last two suggestions are possibly the hardest ones to put into practice.</h5>
<p>As our three-week stay at the marina in Apia showed us once again, the cruisers you meet “out there” can be a fascinating group of people. Someone will always be coming up with an activity to add to the day’s entertainment—be it a potluck, a diving expedition, a night on the town, or an evening of sharing stories and singing shanties or old favorites.</p>
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<td class="caption" style="text-align: center;" valign="top">At many cruising crossroads, there are special places where cruisers gather. The Yacht Club restaurant at Vava’u was one. Unfortunately, it can be so easy to spend the majority of your time at places like this, that you have no time left to meet local folks.</td>
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<p>Over the years, Larry and I have often written, “<em>Go small, go simple, but go now!</em>”To that, we both would like to add: “<strong><em>Do anything necessary to split your shore time 50/50 between getting to know local people and enjoying the company of other cruisers.</em></strong>”</p>
<p>No matter how fine your voyaging turns out to be, if you don’t occasionally break away from your newfound cruising friends, you could look back later and find that there was one thing you didn’t worry about that did actually happen. You could come to realize that the only Polynesian people with whom you had contact were customs and immigration officials and vendors at the local marketplace.</p>
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<td valign="top"><img style="margin-right: 10px; display: block; border-width: 0px;" title="Larry and I had been to Tonga 23 years previously. At that time we were adopted by a wonderful family. On our return we joined them for the village feast. Though we invited several of our new cruising friends to join us, almost all had made previous commitments among the fleet. They missed some great food, enjoyable people who were ready to welcome them into their lives and homes." src="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/LinPardey-FirstTimeVoyager4.jpg" alt="Larry and I had been to Tonga 23 years previously. At that time we were adopted by a wonderful family. On our return we joined them for the village feast. Though we invited several of our new cruising friends to join us, almost all had made previous commitments among the fleet. They missed some great food, enjoyable people who were ready to welcome them into their lives and homes." width="430" height="269" /></td>
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<td class="caption" style="text-align: center;" valign="top">Larry and I had been to Tonga 23 years previously. At that time we were adopted by a wonderful family. On our return we joined them for the village feast. Though we invited several of our new cruising friends to join us, almost all had made previous commitments among the fleet. They missed some great food, enjoyable people who were ready to welcome them into their lives and homes.</td>
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<h5><em><em>About Lin and Larry Pardey</em></em></h5>
<p><em><em><img class="pic-left" style="display: inline; border-width: 0px;" title="Lin and Larry Pardey" src="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/Pardey-2.jpg" alt="Lin and Larry Pardey" width="185" height="275" />Lin and Larry have voyaged more than 200,000 miles together on self-built engine-free wooden boats. Their voyages have taken them around the world, both east-about and west-about, including counter-to-the-prevailing-wind passages south of the great southern capes.</em></em></p>
<p><em><em>Their 11 books and four DVDs include narratives as well as highly useful information on voyaging, storm tactics, boatbuilding, and seamanship.</em></em></p>
<p><em><em>The Pardey’s have been credited with launching thousands of dreams by inspiring and empowering generations of sailors. Together and separately they have been honored with many awards for their contributions to cruising and sailing. Most recently, in 2010 the Pardey’s were awarded The Cruising Club of America’s prestigious Far Horizons Award.</em></em></p>
<p><em><em>Currently they have just returned from exploring the waters of New Zealands Hauraki Gulf and will be flying to the US to present seminars and introduce Lin’s newest book – <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1929214677?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=wacblog1-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=1929214677" target="_blank">Bull Canyon, A Boatbuilder, a writer and other Wildlife</a>. Monthly newsletters and cruising tips can be found at <a href="http://www.landlpardey.com" target="_blank">www.landlpardey.com</a>.</em></em></p>
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<h5><em><em>Capable Cruiser</em></em></h5>
<p><em><em><img class="pic-left" style="display: inline; border-width: 0px;" title="Capable Cruiser " src="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/LinPardey-CapableCruiser.jpg" alt="Capable Cruiser" width="200" height="252" /> This revised and expanded third edition of <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1929214774?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=wacblog1-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=1929214774" target="_blank">The Capable Cruiser</a> includes 10 completely new chapters with such advice as: sixteen ways to encourage your lover (partner) to share your dream; strategies for turning sudden engine failure into a minor incident; choosing safety equipment; repairing rigging at sea. All of the original chapters have been updated to ensure that the information will be helpful for everyone who dreams of cruising—whether now or soon.</em></em></p>
<p><em><em>The <span class="publication">Capable Cruiser</span> is a logical extension of the Pardeys’ <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0964603675?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=wacblog1-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=0964603675" target="_blank">Self Sufficient Sailor</a>, with more emphasis on seamanship underway, including careful analysis of extreme anchoring situations and solutions for mitigating them. Underlying each and every chapter is the warmth and encouragement that spurred Herb McCormick, former editor of <span class="publication">Cruising World</span> magazine, to label Lin and Larry Pardey “the enablers.”</em></em></p></blockquote>
<h6><em><em>Read also on this website</em></em></h6>
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<li class="note"><em><em><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/2011/03/first-time-voyagers-%E2%80%94-what-did-they-worry-about-that-never-happened-part-1/">First-time voyagers — What did they worry about that never happened? (Part 1)</a>, by Lin Pardey</em></em></li>
<li class="note"><em><em><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/2011/02/join-lin-and-larry-pardey-at-us-west-coast-seminars-as-they-introduce-new-book/" target="_blank">Join Lin and Larry Pardey at US West coast seminars as they introduce new book</a></em></em></li>
<li class="note"><em><em><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/admirals-angle/2008/02/18-seasickness/" target="_blank">Seasickness</a> (Admiral&#8217;s Angle column #18): The most asked-about issue of cruising! What are the realities and how can you combat it?</em></em></li>
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<h6><em><em>More information (external links)</em></em></h6>
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<li class="note"><span class="publication"><em><em>Capable Cruiser</em></em></span><em><em> is available at Lin&#8217;s website: <a href="http://www.landlpardey.com./" target="_blank">www.landlpardey.com</a> and <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1929214774?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=wacblog1-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=1929214774" target="_blank">amazon.com</a></em></em></li>
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		<description><![CDATA[In this chapter from "Capable Cruiser", Lin Pardey  asked 11 pairs of cruisers to share their thoughts on predeparture worries, the gear that worked, failures that occurred, and thoughts they wanted to share with those waiting to set sail. We are publishing this chapter in 2 parts. Part 2 will appear next ...<a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/2011/03/first-time-voyagers-%e2%80%94-what-did-they-worry-about-that-never-happened-part-1/"><strong>Read more</strong></a>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="note">As we begin a new series on <strong>Women and Cruising </strong>discussing fear and how we deal with it, we asked Lin Pardey for her thoughts. As she is overwhelmed with repairs following the flooding in New Zealand as well as preparing for her March USA seminars, she is sharing a relevant chapter from her book &#8220;<strong>Capable Cruiser</strong>&#8220;. In this chapter, Lin  asked 11 pairs of willing volunteers to share their thoughts on predeparture worries, the gear that worked, failures that occurred, and thoughts they wanted to share with those waiting to set sail. We are publishing this chapter in two parts. Part 2 will appear next week.</p>
<h4>Arriving in Apia, Samoa</h4>
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<p>It felt wonderful, no concerns about a wind shift turning our anchorage into a lee shore, no rattle of anchor chain across coral heads, the boat lying still enough to use long-stemmed glasses instead of tumblers for our wine.</p>
<p>Even better, arriving in Apia, Samoa, meant we had woven our way past the hurricane belt between Hawaii and Mexico, through the doldrums and south of the equator. Now we’d completed the longest passages of our voyage from Ventura, California, through the Line Islands and back to our home base in New Zealand.</p>
<p>As Larry and I savored this latest landfall in our 42 years and 185,000 miles of wandering together, I mentioned my sense of relief at arriving here. “<em>If you feel so good about it,</em>” Larry commented, “<em>can you imagine how pleased some of these first-time voyagers must feel?</em>”</p>
<p>I already had some idea. In only a few hours alongside in the first marina we’d seen in several months, I’d met half a dozen of these newest voyagers and enjoyed their excitement at having made the break from life ashore and safely crossing a major ocean.<span id="more-4283"></span></p>
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<p>“<em>They all tell me about the things that worried them before they set sail.</em>” I said to him.</p>
<p>“<em>But they went anyway didn’t they?</em>” Larry countered. “<em>These folks are the </em>crème de la crème<em>, the ones who got organized enough to break free and then actually cut the ties and kept going beyond the first landfall. It has been a long time since we were in a place where there was a whole group of new voyagers fresh from their first long passages, their first time away from easy access to marina facilities. </em></p>
<p><em>Why don’t you ask some of them what they worried about that never actually happened? Might give you some interesting ideas to share.</em>”</p>
<p>With his urging, I made a short list of questions, and 11 pairs of willing volunteers shared their thoughts on predeparture worries, the gear that worked, failures that occurred, and thoughts they wanted to share with those waiting to set sail.</p>
<h4>Predeparture worries</h4>
<h5 class="color-beige-dark">Heavy weather</h5>
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<p>• “<em>Really bad weather,</em>” stated Linda and Steve Maggart, echoing a worry that was at or near the top of the list for almost everyone we questioned.</p>
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<td class="caption" style="text-align: center;" valign="top">Among the first timers we interviewed were Linda and Steve Maggart on their Rhodes 40. Their biggest fear had been storm force winds.</td>
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<p>Linda and Steve had spent about 30 separate nights at sea before they set off from Cabo San Lucas, Baja California, in March 2008.</p>
<p>This was to be their very first offshore passage on their vintage sloop <span class="boat_name">Linda</span>, a 40-foot Rhodes Bounty II. With five charters in the Caribbean, plus coastal cruises from Seattle through the Inside Passage to Juneau, Alaska, and south to Cabo San Lucas, their experience level was above average among the group of first-time voyagers we met at Apia.</p>
<p>They, like the majority of sailors along the Pacific routes this season, had encountered stronger-than-average winds, especially near the very active South Pacific Convergence Zone. The system seemed to linger for weeks between Bora Bora and Tonga, stretching as far north as the Penrhyn Atoll in the Northern Cooks, where we also sailed through its 35- and 40-knot gusts. This, plus the reinforced trade winds caused by a La Niña year, had not been what folks expected along the “milk run.”</p>
<p>But Linda and Steve both gave their boat full credit for handling these conditions comfortably and they felt they had done a good job of making sure they had ways of securing everything on board for such conditions.</p>
<p>•  John Boggs on <span class="boat_name">Don Pedro</span>, a 47-foot Beneteau sloop, had sailed from Victoria, Canada, through the Panama Canal in a smaller yacht 28 years earlier. This was to be his wife Linda’s first offshore voyage on the boat they had owned for six years.</p>
<p>In spite of his previous experience, he too worried most about extremely bad weather. When we asked, “<em>What do you wish you had more of now that you are out here?</em>” John answered, “<em>More bad-weather experience.</em>” This must be one of the hardest things for new cruisers to acquire. Very few potential voyagers are willing to—or have the time or opportunity to—head out into a gale just to see how it feels. They rarely get a chance to try reefing their sails and moving about on deck and below to learn how their gear really works when the sea gets snarly.</p>
<p>•  Two boats owned by interviewees had suffered full knockdowns while running between Bora Bora and Suwarrow Atoll.  One suffered serious mast damage, the other had damaged lifeline stanchions. Neither had excessive water get inside the boat and no one was injured, and once each of these crews was able to repair the damages and continue onward, they, like all of the other interviewees, felt they had been pretty well prepared for the heavier winds they encountered.</p>
<p>Interestingly, both of the men on the boats that suffered knockdowns expressed their concern that they had let down their female partners. One said candidly, “<em>When the boat came upright and I saw the damage, then I looked at the fear on her face and felt so terrible. This is definitely not what I promised her cruising would be like.</em>” Women, please take note: No matter how much we may feel we are equal partners in any sailing situation, men will always feel they are personally and ultimately to blame if something major goes wrong on board.</p>
<p>•  Two people mentioned that they wished they had spent a few days at sea not only in strong winds but also in moderate running or reaching winds. Had they experienced the constant motion of being at sea, each would have made changes to the cockpit and accommodations to create more comfortable seating and lounging positions.</p>
<p>One commented: “<em>My ass was sore after a few days of running. The inch-thick cockpit seat cushions were too darned hard. I couldn’t find a decent place to wedge myself in and read in the cockpit or down below.</em>”</p>
<h5 class="color-beige-dark">Being becalmed</h5>
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<td class="caption" style="text-align: center;" valign="top">Interestingly, none of the sailors we interviewed had been concerned about light winds before they set off. But when we met several of these sailors after they’d voyaged further, they wanted to know more about the light wind sails we carry.</td>
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<p>Interestingly, Liz Strash and Mike Scott on <span class="boat_name">Argonaut</span>, a well-maintained Cal 40, worried almost as much about being becalmed as they did about encountering heavy weather.</p>
<p>“<em>The crewman who sailed with us really freaked out when we actually did get becalmed a week out of Cabo. He started counting our food supplies, figuring out how long we could survive out there if the wind never came back. We tried to reassure him, but he was like a caged tiger for a day and a half—until the winds filled in. After that, he never felt as excited about the voyage.</em>” (Larry and I wondered whether he had just read Coleridge’s Rime of the Ancient Mariner.)</p>
<p>Liz and Mike continued on their own after reaching the Marquesas Islands.</p>
<h5 class="color-beige-dark">Gear failures</h5>
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<p>•  They were delighted with their voyaging, eager for more, and able to laugh at all the concerns they’d had about breaking things. “<em>We worried that the mast might come down, that the sails would get ripped up.</em>”</p>
<p>But by the time they reached Apia, their gear failures turned out to be, according to Mike, “<em>nothing we really couldn’t do without. Our head stopped working while we could still see Mexico, the refrigeration quit three days later. The watermaker seals leaked and had to be replaced and the block holding the gimbals on the stove broke.</em>”</p>
<p>•  John and Nancy Powers, on their 48-foot sloop <span class="boat_name">Meridian</span>, worried about “<em>through-hull fittings letting go, major engine problems, and someone falling overboard. Knock on wood, none of these happened,</em>” John said. “<em>In fact,</em>” he added, “<em>not much went wrong. But I am glad I had the spares I needed to keep things working. I’d tell new voyagers, if you need one, get two. There are no West Marine outposts here. So get the stuff now!</em>”</p>
<p>•  Craig Compton, who made this voyage with his wife, Kay, on their 28-foot BCC, <span class="boat_name">Little Wing</span>, echoed Mike’s worries about “<em>everything breaking.” </em>In contrast, however, he feels he carried far too many spares. “<em>I installed everything on the boat other than the engine by myself. I used new parts as I did the installation and kept the old parts as the spares. I didn’t need backup spares for the spares.</em>”</p>
<p>The late Hal Roth first wrote about installing new parts and keeping the originals as a way to be sure the spare parts fit and the right tools were on board. It’s a practice we have always followed for vital equipment, such as bilge-pump diaphragms.</p>
<p>•  Although the group of sailors we interviewed was small, their list of gear failures does parallel what we have seen since 1968. Refrigeration was mentioned the most often, engine fresh-water pump impellers came a close second, and watermaker problems were third.</p>
<p>John on <span class="boat_name">Don Pedro</span> mentioned that his watermaker problem was caused by using tap water to flush his system. When he contacted the manufacturer, he learned that the chlorine in city water was responsible for ruining the membrane. John suggested that we remind people to use only distilled water for flushing. (Seven of 10 interviewees had watermakers.)</p>
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<p class="note"><strong>In part 2, Lin writes about other common worries as well as suggestions for those preparing to set sail:</strong><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/2011/03/first-time-voyagers-%E2%80%94-what-did-they-worry-about-that-never-happened-part-2/" target="_blank"><br />
First-time voyagers — What did they worry about that never happened? (Part 2)</a></p>
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<h5>About Lin and Larry Pardey</h5>
<p><img class="pic-left" style="display: inline; border-width: 0px;" title="Lin and Larry Pardey" src="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/Pardey-2.jpg" alt="Lin and Larry Pardey" width="185" height="275" />Lin and Larry have voyaged more than 200,000 miles together on self-built engine-free wooden boats.  Their voyages have taken them around the world, both east-about and west-about, including counter-to-the-prevailing-wind passages south of the great southern capes.</p>
<p>Their 11 books and four DVDs include narratives as well as highly useful information on voyaging, storm tactics, boatbuilding, and seamanship.</p>
<p>The Pardey’s have been credited with launching thousands of dreams by inspiring and empowering generations of sailors. Together and separately they have been honored with many awards for their contributions to cruising and sailing. Most recently, in 2010 the Pardey’s were awarded The Cruising Club of America’s prestigious Far Horizons Award.</p>
<p>Currently they have just returned from exploring the waters of New Zealands Hauraki Gulf and will be flying to the US to present seminars and introduce Lin’s newest book – <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1929214677?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=wacblog1-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=1929214677" target="_blank">Bull Canyon, A Boatbuilder, a writer and other Wildlife</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=wacblog1-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=1929214677" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" />. Monthly newsletters and cruising tips can be found at <a href="http://www.landlpardey.com" target="_blank">www.landlpardey.com</a>.</p>
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<h5>Capable Cruiser</h5>
<p><img class="pic-left" style="display: inline; border-width: 0px;" title="Capable Cruiser " src="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/LinPardey-CapableCruiser.jpg" alt="Capable Cruiser" width="200" height="252" /> This revised and expanded third edition of <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1929214774?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=wacblog1-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=1929214774" target="_blank">The Capable Cruiser</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=wacblog1-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=1929214774" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /><br />
includes 10 completely new chapters with such advice as: sixteen ways to encourage your lover (partner) to share your dream; strategies for turning sudden engine failure into a minor incident; choosing safety equipment; repairing rigging at sea. All of the original chapters have been updated to ensure that the information will be helpful for everyone who dreams of cruising—whether now or soon.</p>
<p>The <span class="publication">Capable Cruiser</span> is a logical extension of the Pardeys’ <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0964603675?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=wacblog1-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=0964603675" target="_blank">Self Sufficient Sailor</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=wacblog1-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0964603675" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" />, with more emphasis on seamanship underway, including careful analysis of extreme anchoring situations and solutions for mitigating them. Underlying each and every chapter is the warmth and encouragement that spurred Herb McCormick, former editor of <span class="publication">Cruising World</span> magazine, to label Lin and Larry Pardey “the enablers.”</p></blockquote>
<h6>Read also on this website</h6>
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<li class="note"><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/2011/03/first-time-voyagers-%E2%80%94-what-did-they-worry-about-that-never-happened-part-2/" target="_blank">First-time voyagers — What did they worry about that never happened? (Part 2)</a></li>
<li class="note"><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/2011/02/join-lin-and-larry-pardey-at-us-west-coast-seminars-as-they-introduce-new-book/" target="_blank">Join Lin and Larry Pardey at US West coast seminars as they introduce new book</a></li>
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<h6>More information (external links)</h6>
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<li class="note"><span class="publication">Capable Cruiser</span> is available at Lin&#8217;s website: <a href="http://www.landlpardey.com./" target="_blank">www.landlpardey.com</a> and <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1929214774?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=wacblog1-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=1929214774" target="_blank">amazon.com</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=wacblog1-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=1929214774" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /></li>
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		<title>Women&#8217;s Experience of Cruising &#8211; Research Findings</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Karyn Ennor]]></dc:creator>
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<p>I always thought that my fellow female cruisers experience the cruising lifestyle in a sort of similar way.</p>
<p>That is, have similar expectations, apprehensions and passions.</p>
<p>That fears they experience, the interests and dreams pursued and the skills obtained, would be generally the same.</p>
<p>So, I asked some questions.</p>
<p>In fact, I asked all the lady cruisers I had ...<a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/blog/2010/08/womens-experience-of-cruising-research-findings/"><strong>Read more</strong></a>]]></description>
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<p>I always thought that my fellow female cruisers experience the cruising lifestyle in a sort of similar way.</p>
<p>That is, have similar expectations, apprehensions and passions.</p>
<p>That fears they experience, the interests and dreams pursued and the skills obtained, would be generally the same.</p>
<p>So, I asked some questions.</p>
<p>In fact, I asked all the lady cruisers I had met during our 15 years cruising. In fact, I wrote a survey, resulting in a very detailed survey.</p>
<p>A raft of questions tumbled out.</p>
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<h5>What did I discover?</h5>
<p>Well, I found that cruising women had a whole range of apprehensions and that some of these decreased over time but others surprisingly, increased.</p>
<p>I found that these women dealt with fears in diverse ways. I discovered a myriad of reasons why they started the adventure and many more that made them continue or discontinue.</p>
<p>There are some good ideas about their ideal boat and what made the journey all worthwhile. There are some interesting bits about relationships and, some wonderful tips for the beginning cruiser. I also received some insights into what happens next after you return from ‘the big trip’.</p>
<h4>The Sample</h4>
<p>Forty-two women responded .</p>
<p>Half the women came from Australia and New Zealand and the Northern Hemisphere was represented by Canada and USA with 36%, some from Europe and one from Hong Kong. Five boats cruised with their families.</p>
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<h5>What age group?</h5>
<p>Three quarters are between 50 and 60 but of those remaining, over half were actually older with one over 70.</p>
<p>Two thirds of the ladies have sailed for over 15 years and over half of the whole group have sailed for over 20 years.</p>
<p>Most started sailing due to their partner being a sailor, a few couples started together and 6 women have sailed since they were kids. The idea to go cruising was initiated almost equally between ‘him’ alone and ‘as a couple.’ 47% to 40%.</p>
<p><strong>Interestingly, about a quarter of women in the group suggested the idea first. </strong></p>
<p>Once the idea of cruising blossomed, the enthusiasm of other established cruisers and, the practical information gleaned from books, gave most couples the confidence to make it a reality. Half of the group related that a single episode, like, sundowners on a friend’s boat, lit the spark.</p>
<h4>Initial Plan</h4>
<p>Nearly half the group had read enough and completed courses to want to do serious ocean cruising or a circumnavigation.</p>
<p>Most of the other half, including the family boats,preferred to be open to how they felt and let the journey evolve and &#8212; guess what &#8212; they all did some long distance ocean crossings with, three of the five family boats, circumnavigating.</p>
<p>Naturally the amount of time all this took varied with the infinite variations in people’s lives, but at least three quarters of the group have cruised for more than 5 years. A quarter of the group have been cruising for over 20 years. (They must have been younger when they started and loving the lifestyle.)</p>
<p>Over half the group changed their mind from their initial plan. This was mainly a result of, the journey just evolves; influences with the vagaries of weather; the people you meet; the places you love and the ever growing confidence and curiosity to venture that bit further.</p>
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<h4>The Boat</h4>
<p>Now, let’s look at the boat.</p>
<p>Most people have had only one boat, three quarters being mono hulls, with the average length of all boats, between 30 and 40 feet.</p>
<p>99% of people were happy with their boats although the greatest ‘wish list’ change was having a larger living area which meant, extending the cockpit, adding dodgers and waterlines.</p>
<p>More efficient storage and multipurpose work spaces with increased ventilation are also very important.</p>
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<p>Fanciful ‘nice to haves’ included:</p>
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<li>having all the labour saving mod cons e.g., washing machine, espresso bar,&#8230;&#8230;..</li>
<li>to unlimited money and water usage and,</li>
<li>having more romantic candle–lit dinners under a star-flung sky with a zephyr breeze wafting the aroma of frangipani.</li>
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<h4>Cruising</h4>
<h5>The attraction</h5>
<p>There was much agreement that the greatest attraction to this cruising lifestyle is the unique ability to stay in exotic places, experience diverse cultures whilst being able to stay in one’s own accommodation.</p>
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<p>The peace and freedom to live like this is also unique.</p>
<p>However trying to keep contact with friends and family, whilst balancing a sea-land based existence was the biggest issue.</p>
<h5>Attributes needed</h5>
<p>Overwhelmingly, the kinds of attributes needed to happily cruise are firstly, adaptability to all those quick changes that occur.</p>
<p>These may include, changing destinations because of weather, flexibility in relation to socialising, jobs, touring and cultural challenges.</p>
<p>Secondly, having the initiative to maximise information for personal comfort or the task at hand is considered an important asset.</p>
<p>Being independent and having a sense of humour were also seen as important attributes.</p>
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<h5>Personal challenges and growth</h5>
<p>Cruising can be about personal challenges and to this end many women stated that they experienced a positive growth in self awareness in relation to living in a restricted environment as well as their response to stress.</p>
<p>The development of skills, both mental and physical helped in <em>“making me more courageous, physically stronger with an <strong>‘I can do it’</strong> attitude.”</em></p>
<p>What women learnt about their menfolk was an increased respect for their sailing skills in varied situations and their ability to operate under stress.</p>
<p>Big points for those partners who understood the ‘learning curve’ she was experiencing and his ability to ‘fix anything’.</p>
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<h5>What do you do all day?</h5>
<p>For that question ’what do you do all day?’ ….</p>
<p>The favoured activity at anchor of course was socialising with other yachties and, touring ashore, while, reading was the number one activity on those long voyages.</p>
<p>The most enjoyable aspects on a long passage were being part of a team and sharing unique events of nature that occur at sea.</p>
<p>We all have some and will always remember them. Seasickness was the least enjoyable event, understandably so.</p>
<h5>Fears</h5>
<p>Any new activity invites an element of both fear and interest and the level of enjoyment depends upon a balance between the two.</p>
<p>By far the biggest fear was the lack of control of the elements, with high wind strengths, especially of 40+, however, with time and experience and weather planning, this fear definitely alleviated.</p>
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<p>The fear that increased was that of losing contact with friends and family, as, the more time you are away the less contact you may have.</p>
<p>Of course, technology, with email etc can alleviate this to a certain extent.</p>
<p>Another big fear is your partner going overboard.</p>
<p>Using safety devices, e.g. a harness, is a good way of coping with this one and also practicing <em>Man overboard</em> drills.</p>
<p>In essence most of the fears alleviated with experience but remain in the background to be managed.</p>
<h4>Personal Relationships</h4>
<p>Regarding personal relationships on board, those that had issues with their partner worked out ways of working with the problem &#8211; except one who left the boat and changed partners!</p>
<p>Strategies that aided dealing with issues included, good relationship skills like, viewing yourselves as a team with technical and emotional responsibilities, having open discussions about any issue and viewing life with a tolerant, philosophical outlook.</p>
<p>The 5-minute <em>‘get angry and get over it’</em> strategy was a good one.</p>
<h4>Post Long-term Cruising</h4>
<p>The last group of questions referred to those long term cruisers who have returned home. There are 22 people in this group.</p>
<h5>What comes next</h5>
<p>Most had firm ideas about what they wanted to do. That is, stabilise the income by getting employment or looking at investments and real estate.</p>
<p>The aim of most of the group was then to continue cruising in some manner. This may be a more balanced compromise between part-time cruising and land travel, living and working lifestyle and grandchildren. Being closer to family was a driving force.</p>
<p>Immediately after returning, there exists an overriding feeling of the surreal, that they had actually journeyed so far, especially for those who had crossed many oceans.</p>
<p>There is a yearning for the community lifestyle of fellow cruisers and the need for a new challenge.</p>
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<h5>What they miss</h5>
<p>Many miss the freedom of being outdoors and the diversity of cultures.</p>
<p>To satisfy this need, some have chosen to land travel in e.g., caravans, and have been particular where they choose to live, eg near water, open spaces, within a community but not in a big city.</p>
<h5>Benefits of life ashore</h5>
<p>Living ashore has great benefits in being able to pursue hobbies and interests.</p>
<p>Being able to have a good yarn to other yachties at the local club and keeping email and other contacts with cruising friends helps to process one’s cruising experiences.</p>
<p>Keeping the travel link also helps to avoid the consumer trap that pervades living on land.</p>
<p>One never fits back into the same life again nor would many want to.</p>
<p>Most find themselves more adaptable, curious and confident to take on whatever is happening now.</p>
<h5>Their advice</h5>
<p>Their advice to someone starting off is to:</p>
<ul>
<li>prepare well,</li>
<li>know how to handle the boat,</li>
<li>socialise and ask heaps of questions,</li>
<li>cruise one step at a time,</li>
<li>and most importantly, don’t aim too high or too expensively</li>
<li>… so you can <strong>DO IT NOW</strong>.</li>
</ul>
<p>This is a summary of the diversity of responses I received. If you have any comments or questions feel free to email.</p>
<p>Regards,<br />
Karyn Ennor</p>
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<h6>About Karyn Ennor</h6>
<p>I am 58 years old. I have been cruising for 16 years now and spent 12 years of that completing a circumnavigation.</p>
<p>I had never sailed before until I met my husband 20 years ago, but I have always enjoyed an outdoors life.</p>
<p>I learnt most of sailing skills from my very patient husband (Chris) and everything else from all the wonderful people we have met and the books that have been written.</p>
<p>My background is sociology and teaching English as a foreign language so, our cruising lifestyle provided fertile ground for all my interests.</p>
<p>We have been back in Australia for 3 years now and still live on our 34&#8242; Catamaran MAGIC CARPET. After our years of cruising we have found it difficult to rejoin the suburban lifestyle and are long term Gypsies, I guess.</p>
<p>Chris and I have been writing articles about our journey and have been publishing in the Australian &#8216;Multihull World&#8217; magazine for the last five years.</p>
<p>I find writing and attaching photographs of our travels a wonderful way to process our experiences. It makes it more real and we find we keep meeting our readership out on the water and so we get to share our experiences again, by answering their many questions and referring women to this website. It&#8217;s my version of &#8216;fame&#8217; without the&#8217; fortune&#8217; but we feel pretty wealthy having so many friends and the time to spend with them.</p>
<p>Over the years, over coffee and a chat I have shared many ideas about cruising and I guess my idea for the &#8216;women&#8217;s survey&#8217; came out of an interest in the commonality and diversity of experiences. There is also an interest to process and share/compare these experiences with other cruising women. I also wish to help those women who are just starting off to feel more confident about what they are doing.</p>
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<h6>Read also on this website</h6>
<ul>
<li><a href="http://www.womenandcruising.com/admirals-angle/">The Admiral’s Angle complete archives</a> (Karyn is one of Gwen’s Admirals.)</li>
</ul>
<h6>More info (external links)</h6>
<ul>
<li><a href="http://multihull.com.au/site/">Multihull World Magazine, Australia</a></li>
</ul>
<blockquote><p><strong>How have your experiences paralleled or differed from those of the women in Karyn’s survey? </strong>Let us know.<br />
Email <a href="mailto:kathy@forcruisers.com">kathy@forcruisers.com</a> or leave a comment below.</p></blockquote>
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